Mamma Z is the Author and Illustrator of the Children's Book Series "Zombie Squirts." She is on a mission to eliminate bullying!
Why Is it Important to Identify the Negative Effects of Bullying?
When we think about bullying, sometimes the first thing that comes to mind is that maybe a child/teen is just getting picked on at school, and we all hope that it will resolve itself and no further actions should be taken. In some cases, being "picked on" at school is fairly normal. Some younger children haven't developed the skills yet to communicate what is going on in their head, especially when they are trying to explain what they "like" or "don't like" about somebody else. They might look at another student who is different than themselves and not know how to express the differences, so they tend to point out these differences in a harsh way.
This is not a terrible situation, and most children after they develop the correct vocabulary and phrasing, can identify these differences and not sound so "mean" while trying to explain what they are seeing as differences in another person. It is up to the parents and teachers in our community to explain to the children that just because someone is "different" does not mean that they deserve to be treated poorly.
Do not let this simple "teasing" fool you though. Because it is when
"teasing" or "misunderstanding differences" towards another person gets taken too far and becomes a serious problem. A problem that can have long term negative effects on people, some that even last an entire lifetime.
There are many negative effects that bullying causes in people: children/teens and even adults. The first step to solving a problem is to understand the problem and the results or consequences of that problem. It is always a good idea to find some books, videos or other media content that can open the discussion of bullying with your kids!
If we are going to eliminate bullying we must first look at its negative effects and take action to prevent it!
Courage is FIRE
"Courage is fire, and bullying is smoke"
— Benjamin Disraeli
Five Negative Effects of Bullying
5. School Drop Outs
It might be surprising to you to find out that 1 in 10 Students that drop out of school dropped out due to being bullied. If someone feels as though they can't be accepted for who they are in the ONE PLACE that they are suppose to feel safe, why would they want to stay? This is a problem because these children lose out on the opportunity to advance their education and possibly make a more successful life for themselves.
- High School Dropouts will earn $200,000 less than a high school graduate over his/her lifetime.
- In the United States, high school dropouts commit roughly 70-75% of crimes.
Millions of Students Drop Out Each Year
- Every year, over 1.2 million students drop out of high school in the United States alone.
- 1 student every 26 seconds – or 7,000 a day. About 25% of high school freshmen fail to graduate from high school on time
4. Bullying Affects The Child's Ability to Learn
Children that are bullied have a harder time retaining information throughout the day. When they are constantly worried about when and where they could be bullied next, this takes away from their time spent on learning. Not only are they distracted by wondering when or where the bullying will come next, but when someone is bullied, it affects their brain's receptors negatively. This leads to a lack of concentration and depression.
- Nearly 24% of children suffer chronic levels of bullying at school. These kids had a "lower academic achievement" and a "greater dislike of school."
- Roughly 18% experience moderate bullying at school. The results of lower academic achievement and dislike for school was similar to those who suffered chronic levels of bullying.
3. Bullying Affects the Child's Ability to Trust Others
Anytime someone gets bullied, they develop a strong mistrust for people. This might not show in younger years with the child, but as they grow and mature and start to build relationships with others, this deep seeded mistrust for people starts to surface. This can cause failed friendships, and even future relationships with their significant others.
Trust is the Glue of Life....
"Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships."
— Stephen Covey
2. School Shootings
Students that have been harassed and/or bullied in schools have been linked to almost 75% of School Shootings in the USA. When these kids feel as though nobody cares for them and gets to the point where rage takes control of them, this is when school shootings take place. We could prevent unnecessary deaths by teaching children the importance of respect and acceptance.
- Bullying Victims are twice as likely to bring a weapon to school
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1. Bullying Can Lead to Depression and Suicide
The worst case outcome from bullying is, of course, depression and suicide. This does not only pertain to children, but teens and adults as well. Depression is a very serious illness that over 350 Million people worldwide suffer from. We could prevent some of these suicide cases by eliminating bullying and teaching our children to accept others for their differences.
- Bullying is the 3rd LEADING CAUSE of death among our youth.
- Bully victims are up to 9 times MORE likely to consider suicide.
- Nearly 30% of students claim to be victims of bullying.
Suicide Isn't Cowardly...
Suicide isn't cowardly. I'll tell you what is cowardly; treating people so badly that they want to end their lives.
— Ashley Purdy
© 2017 Mamma Z
Marcus on April 22, 2020:
Just to note, do not phrase "negative effects' associated with the topic bullying..Instead, use "effects/impacts", because you are insinuating that there is a "positive" effect. Thus, be cognisant of phrasing. On the other hand, the information was quite useful.
billy-bob ross on March 12, 2020:
hi i love this it amazing
John Dove on November 18, 2019:
Hi Mama Z--
Your points on bullying are well taken. Bullying is Bad!
I would another point: Bullying lowers the self-esteem on the person being bullied.
elijah on November 18, 2019:
thank you for the facts
kyana on November 13, 2019:
Angel on November 01, 2019:
Very nice. Really enlightening
Cut3Cook1e on June 04, 2019:
Great Website! Very good information and quotes. Congrats!
why bullying is wrong on February 12, 2019:
why bullying is wrong
kyle on November 02, 2018:
no is no
unknown on October 17, 2018:
can I ask what do you gain
after bullying others
jim on September 26, 2018:
can I ask a question.
what is the positive effect of bullying to the person person ?
Maison on September 01, 2018:
Bullying should stop
Macy Arch on August 27, 2018:
This is good info.
Ruby on July 03, 2018:
I have been bullied by these boys at school and no one is doing anything about it. I want it to stop
Nathan on June 15, 2018:
Thank you this is the best information ever.
Not you on May 31, 2018:
This is so good informatio.
Anynomous on May 28, 2018:
This is great for my school essay as evidence. Also I deeply agree, bullying should stop. More should be done about it.
lexi on May 23, 2018:
Why would that that guy do that
layla on May 17, 2018:
this a very helpful for my school essay the reason i choose this topic is its very imporant and we need to stop it
Casey on May 14, 2018:
This is very helpful for the school assembly i'm doing next year
Anonymous on May 10, 2018:
This was a very good website for information and facts about bullying. Thank you.
Marriana on April 17, 2018:
I really like all the votes and facts. This website was really useful.
Emma on April 09, 2018:
I am doing a speech on bullying and i found this website which came in handy. I definitely recommend others to read this.
I especially loved the little votes.
As a victim of bullying i can relate to a lot.
I recommend adding more votes and keeping up the good work!
Spongebob Squarepants on February 07, 2018:
wow this article has a ton of info about bullying you guys must have worked really hard
John Dove on December 11, 2017:
Congratulations on another good Hub on bullying, that scourge that leads to terrible consequences, as you point out so well. Spread the word. Stop bullying. Watch for my real-life story coming up on a future Hub.