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Why Hands-on Learning Matters Most When Choosing a Preschool

During her years as a teacher and mother, Ms. Meyers discovered that not all praise was equal and some kinds were even deleterious to kids.

Those in power care about test results, not the emotional well-being of children and certainly not developmentally appropriate practices. That's why parents need to understand and champion hands-on learning.

Those in power care about test results, not the emotional well-being of children and certainly not developmentally appropriate practices. That's why parents need to understand and champion hands-on learning.

Hands-On Learning Is How Young Children Learn Best

Decades of research show that hands-on learning at preschool is best. As misguided politicians, bureaucrats, school administrators, parents, and the public, though, push for more formal academics at earlier ages, it's gotten devalued and minimized.

Those knowledgeable about early childhood education understand how valuable it is, but many with decision-making power don't. That's why it's important that moms and dads educate themselves on the matter and become advocates for hands-on learning at preschool and, in the process, become champions of young children.

What Is Hands-On Learning at Preschool?

Hands-on learning at preschool simply means that children are active participants throughout the day: exploring the materials, playing inside and outside, following their curiosities, and discovering things on their own and with each other.Their teacher acts as a facilitator—not by telling the youngsters what to do—but by asking questions that challenge them to think creatively and deeply.

A teacher skilled at hands-on learning will often begin her inquiries with how: How can you build that bigger without it falling? How can you make sure those plants grow healthy? How can you all play together so everyone has a turn?

Most of us experienced hands-on learning when we were preschoolers, and it contributed greatly to our fond memories for those early years of learning. Scholars in early childhood development have written extensively on the value of hands-on learning, arguing that it's developmentally appropriate because young children discover best through their senses, through movement, and through their curiosity about the world around them.

The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC)—the world's largest organization of early childhood professionals—says a quality early childhood education is one in which “Children are given opportunities to learn and develop through exploration and play...materials and equipment spark children's interest and encourage them to experiment and learn.”

Engineer and astronaut, Leland Melvin, explains why hands-on learning is the best STEM education.

Why Is Hands-On Learning at Preschool on the Decline?

During the past two decades, many preschools have adopted an “escalated curriculum,” meaning they're requiring young children to do academic activities that were once reserved for older students. When legislation such as No Child Left Behind and Common Core got implemented in our elementary schools, it dribbled down to our preschools and impacted them in a negative way. A once developmentally appropriate hands-on curriculum got overtaken by teacher-led lessons, paper-pencil tasks, and long periods of sitting still and listening.

When these escalated activities increase, developmentally appropriate practices decrease.There's simply less time for hands-on learning, unstructured play, socialization, and creative pursuits. The preschool classroom shifts from a child-centered environment to an adult-centered one.

Whenever standardized test results show US students lagging behind other industrialized countries, a huge cry goes up for more rigorous academics in our schools. Young children become the unwitting victims of this when hands-on learning at preschool is trivialized as “just play” and gets minimized.

They get hurt when early childhood educators with integrity, talent, and knowledge leave the profession, refusing to teach in a way that's unsuitable for young children. The hurt continues when these veteran teachers get replaced by inexperienced ones who know little or nothing about early childhood education.

In their position paper on developmentally appropriate practices, the NAEYC writes: “Preschool educators have some fears about the prospect of the K–12 system absorbing or radically reshaping education for 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds, especially at a time when pressures in public schooling are intense and often run counter to the needs of young children. Many early childhood educators are already quite concerned about the current climate of increased high-stakes testing adversely affecting children in grades K–3, and they fear extension of these effects to even younger children.”

Public preschools have become results-oriented and hands-on learning is getting diminished.

Public preschools have become results-oriented and hands-on learning is getting diminished.

Big Government in Education Means Less Hands-On Learning at Preschool

The federal government has become increasingly involved in all areas of education and preschool is no exception. About 35% of all 4-year-olds in our country attend publicly supported pre-kindergarten programs. States have established early learning standards for the years before kindergarten, and Head Start has adopted a “child outcomes framework” that identifies learning expectations in eight domains.

Because of the government's growing involvement, the sweet preschool experience of yesterday is slowly disappearing—the one we remember so fondly where we played with big wooden blocks on the carpet with our buddies, went outside to ride tricycles like maniacs on the blacktop, and painted unique masterpieces of our own creation at the easel. The bureaucracy has taken over, meaning lots of red tape, documentation, rules, and regulations. Preschool is now starting to look like every other grade with little or no recognition of developmentally appropriate practices such as hands-on learning.

Sadly, as the government becomes more involved in early childhood education, parents become less involved and less empowered. They become convinced that their children must go to preschool or else they'll fall behind their peers. They feel less capable of teaching their children themselves—certain they're not qualified, certain they don't have the right skills and the right curriculum, certain they'll somehow mess up and confuse their children. The government does everything in its power to re-enforce these feelings of inadequacy in parents so the educational bureaucracy can grow bigger and bigger.

Minimizing hands-on learning at preschool is reminiscent of the movement years ago to drop or greatly reduce recess. School administrators, worried that children were not getting enough academic minutes, decided recess was the thing to go. Child development experts warned that this was foolhardy but got ignored.

Without recess, children were less focused during class time. There was an increase in obesity and a decrease in fitness. There were more behavioral issues and less positive social interactions. It was a failure—just as this current push to minimize hands-on learning will be. It's just a matter of time.

Is It ADHD? A Behavioral Disorder? Immaturity? Perhaps, It's Simply Not Enough Hands-On Learning at Preschool!

It's not a coincidence that young children are suddenly getting diagnosed with a plethora of behavioral problems just as we demand more from them academically. Teachers tell concerned parents that their children have behavioral issues, ADHD, or are immature for their age.

In reality, though, the children are perfectly normal—healthy, happy, active little kids who need hands-on learning experiences, unstructured play, and lots of fun experiences like movement, art, and music.Their attention spans are 15-20 minutes so asking them to sit still and listen for longer periods of time is unreasonable and, quite frankly, cruel.

The NAEYC articulates the following about standards that are harmful to young children: “Practices of concern include excessive lecturing to the whole group, fragmented teaching of discrete objectives, and insistence that teachers follow rigid, tightly paced schedules. There is also concern that schools are curtailing valuable experiences such as problem solving, rich play, collaboration with peers, opportunities for emotional and social development, outdoor/physical activity, and the arts. In the high-pressure classroom, children are less likely to develop a love of learning and a sense of their own competence and ability to make choices, and they miss much of the joy and expansive learning of childhood.”

Final Thoughts

It's so critical that parents educate themselves about hands-on learning at preschool to appreciate its importance and advocate for it. Teachers are under pressure to get results, carry out standards, and follow whatever new guidelines the government is requiring. Sometimes they lose their way and forget about what's most important. Hands-on learning at preschool returns the focus to where it belongs—on the children and what's best for them.

Hands-On Learning Is What Parents Need to Consider When Choosing a Preschool

The NAEYC Is Concerned About Excessive Lecturing to the Whole Group

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Questions & Answers

Question: What's your opinion about computer use in preschool?

Answer: Computers in preschool are not a good use of class time. Young children are much better served with activities that spark their imaginations, tap into their curiosities, and get them interacting with one another. What a shame it is for preschoolers to engage in a virtual world when the real one around them is filled with blocks, puppets, puzzles, play-dough, and paint! Preschoolers are wired to be active learners--discovering through movement, through their senses, through their curiosity, through play, and through hands-on materials. For these reasons, computers in preschool are not considered within the realm of “developmentally appropriate practices” by the vast majority of pediatricians and scholars in early childhood education.

Computers in preschool are a red flag, warning moms and dads that the director is unfamiliar with the latest findings on kids and screens. According to a 2010 study by the Kaiser Family Foundation, American children and teens are spending more than seven and a half hours per day on screens (computers, TV's, and smartphones) and that amount is increasing. While this report didn't include preschoolers (just kids 8-18), it's staggering evidence that our country's problem is too much screen time for youngsters, not too little.

Sadly, preschoolers get hooked on technology, and their addiction can lead to major health issues as they mature. These include obesity, depression, anxiety, narcissism, and suicide. While it may look cute and precocious when a 3-year-old uses daddy's smartphone, it's anything but adorable when a 13-year-old becomes socially isolated, earns poor grades, gets bullied online, can't communicate effectively, and doesn't experience empathy.

Unfortunately, too many ill-informed parents get impressed by computers in preschool and think early exposure is beneficial. They foolishly brag that their preschoolers are “smart” because they're more adept with technology than some adults. This, however, is not an indication of true intelligence but just illustrates kids' fearlessness with devices. Real intelligence comes from real-world experiences, not virtual ones.

It infuriates me when parents of preschoolers recite the cliché “earlier is better,” knowing it's not true but wanting to relieve their guilt about letting their little ones use screens. According to the American Association of Pediatricians, children 2-5 should have only one hour of “high-quality programming” in front of screens per day. However, anyone with a lick of common sense knows it's highly unlikely parents are adhering to this guideline. Many of us have had the experience of being with our families during the holidays and seeing kids get on their devices. Most moms and dads have no idea what they're watching but are just glad they're busy, quiet, and safe. Before parents realize it, their children have racked up 3-4 hours watching screens!

Computers in preschool give parents the wrong message about young children and technology. Preschool directors and teachers have an obligation to inform parents about appropriate practices for this age group and warn them against screen time. There shouldn't be computers in preschools any more than there should be TVs.

© 2015 McKenna Meyers


McKenna Meyers (author) on January 09, 2020:

Thanks, Canary, for your kind words. I love that video, too. When I visit preschools today, one of the saddest things that I observe are kids being pulled away from hands-on activities. They're building with blocks or playing in the sandbox and are called over by their teacher for an assessment (don't get me started on that) or to do a craft project. They miss out on that uninterrupted time to learn by doing because it's not valued anough.

Canary from New York on January 08, 2020:

Again, thank you for your candid handling of a critical situation in education. The Leland Melvin video description of how he was exposed to engineering through a practical life hands-on project orchestrated by his father is a clear demonstration of why hands-on education is a must for very young children. Very, very well done!

McKenna Meyers (author) on August 24, 2017:

Thanks for your thoughtful comments, Sybol. I've been reading more research about the value of downtime for both adults and kids. It seems crucial for stimulating our creativity, staying mentally sound, and becoming our best selves. Many of the children I know are over-scheduled with too many structured activities and have very little of it...at school and at home.

sybol on August 24, 2017:

I agree that hands on learning is very important especially for young children. Memorization is important but the ability to think and reason is very important. Playtime, down or free time, and creative time are also very important. Teachers, good teachers, seasoned teachers definitely know better that bureaucrats and corporate heads.

Kathryn L Hill from LA on December 21, 2015:

Yes, people may become more interested in the truth about early child hood when speech problems become evident.

I believe speech disabilities are developing with greater frequency as children are dropped off at day cares and preschools

McKenna Meyers (author) on December 21, 2015:

Yes and a lot of the young, inexperienced teachers think hands-on learning, play, and exploration are old-fashioned ideas. Kindergarten teachers are now being chosen for the job because they're good at handling discipline problems. Nobody stops to think: The problem is not with the kids; it's with the instruction. I hope you keep being a voice in the wilderness, Kathryn!

Kathryn L Hill from LA on December 21, 2015:

"Young children become the unwitting victims of this when hands-on learning at preschool is greatly reduced and minimized as “just play.”

They're hurt further because early childhood educators with integrity, talent, and knowledge choose to leave the profession, refusing to teach in a way that's unsuitable for young children. "


"Young children are hurt again when these experienced teachers get replaced by ones who know very little about the uniqueness of early childhood education."

Precisely what I am witnessing, wherever I sub.

McKenna Meyers (author) on November 12, 2015:

I think it's crazy that parents of second and third graders say they can't help their children with math because Common Core is so strange and convoluted. But, it's even crazier when parents think they can't do the preschool curriculum with their children. They can do it and be 100 times more effective because it's one on one and nothing beats that! Thanks for reading and commenting!

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on November 12, 2015:

"Parents become less involved, less empowered." That's a dangerous red flag warning that the powers will make specimens of the children. Thanks for dealing with this topic; hope parents listen up and act.

McKenna Meyers (author) on November 12, 2015:

I'm pretty cynical about education these days. Whenever there's a new movement (e.g. the current one, STEM), there are people profiting from it. There are so many products now (toys, supplies for teachers, teacher manuals, etc.) that encourage STEM learning. Somebody is making a lot of money, but it's never the teachers! The basics of good teaching don't change, but that notion isn't a money maker.

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on November 12, 2015:

I totally agree....in fact, let's extend this to the older kids as well. Let's get away from the standardized testing and let's get back to real education. :)