Weird Early Symptoms of Pregnancy Before Your Missed Period

It could mean you're pregnant or it could mean you're dealing with an illness. I did experience dizziness and lightheadedness around one week before my period was due with both pregnancies. I would take a test a day or two before your period is due and if it's negative and the dizziness and lightheadedness continues and interferes with your daily life, let your doctor know so you can figure out how to get back to normal. It could be anything from a virus to an inner-ear issue, but either way, your doctor will be able to help you get down to the bottom of it.

Well, I can't say for sure because I'm not a doctor, but I can say from my own experience as a woman with periods and whatnot - sometimes (often) I feel unwell around my ovulation. It makes sense when you think about it since ovulation is yet another hormonal event, not unlike PMS or our menstrual cycle itself. If you continue to feel lightheaded and short of breath, let your doctor know. If you've recently had unprotected sense and suspect that you're newly pregnant, get an early result pregnancy test and start taking it the week your period is due. I think it's best to start testing four days from when your period is supposed to start.

No. If the last time you had sex was a year ago or more then that baby would already be born.

That's a valid guess, honestly! Often, we'll feel what we're sure are pregnancy symptoms when they're actually ovulation symptoms. The best way to tell the difference is by looking at the calendar to see if it's near the time you should be starting your period, or if you just had your period a week or two before.

In your case though, it does sound like you're expecting your period within the next couple of days. If that's true, it won't hurt to take an early detection pregnancy test, especially if your symptoms aren't usual PMS symptoms for you.

If it turns up negative, then it's possible you're just having an especially difficult premenstrual phase (we all get them!)

I'm sorry you're feeling so off. I've been there and I can promise a lot of other women reading this article have too!

First, it could have been too early to test. That's because often, implantation (which is when the fertilized egg adheres to the wall of the uterus) takes longer to occur than most of us think. It typically happens between six and twelve days after ovulation. What that means is that implantation can happen as late as just a couple of days before your period is due. After implantation happens, it then takes around two days for a pregnancy test to turn positive. Which is really confusing! You would think that when "conception" happens, you would be able to get a positive test right away but you have to wait until that fertilized egg is attached and ready to send out the hormones needed to get a positive pregnancy test.

Now, since you're using two forms of birth control I'm going to take an educated guess and say your symptoms are not pregnancy related at all, but related to an extra-miserable premenstrual week or side effects of your hormonal birth control.

If your symptoms continue and you are still getting negative pregnancy tests I'd put a call into your OB or GP to see if your birth control is the culprit.

Oh my goodness, yes! You can test if you're late, and at 8 or 9 days late, you can trust that the results are probably pretty accurate.

If the test comes back negative, then it's possible that the spotting was just a super light period. If you end up being more than two weeks late, let your doctor know so they can see what's up. It's not uncommon to have light and late or missed periods when you have a thyroid condition (these are super treatable, by the way!)

You don't need to wait until your period is due to know whether or not you're pregnant, because I can assure you, you aren't. I'm not a doctor and I can't officially "diagnose" you but I can tell you from nearly three decades of life that you absolutely need to have intercourse to get pregnant.

If you have not had sex (intercourse), then you can not get pregnant. You didn't have sex, so you're not pregnant.

That being said, "messing around" unprotected still leaves you vulnerable to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). So it would be a good idea to check out https://bedsider.org and see what methods of protection are right for you and your partner to protect the both of you from STIs and STDs. Likewise, before and after getting intimate, you and your partner should wash your hands.

If April 18th comes and goes and you still don't have your period, then you can take a home pregnancy test for reassurance. However, you should remember that stress (like stressing out about getting pregnant) can delay your period.

There's a possibility, or you may have just had a lighter than normal period.

Since your last period was off, if it was that way because of pregnancy then you are for sure good to take a pregnancy test right now. Either way, it should be accurate and put your mind at ease!

First, I just want to say, don't be scared! Or be scared, but know that you're not alone in fear of an unplanned pregnancy. There are lots of other women who go through this, and that's why there are so many resources to help you pick the path that works for you IF this is an unplanned pregnancy. You've got this, no matter what!

Now, onto logistics - yes, it's possible to get pregnant on an IUD, even if those chances are small. It's also important to find out as soon as possible if you are since there's a risk of ectopic pregnancy when you have an IUD inserted.

So, here's what you need to do - get the pregnancy test. It won't be a waste of money because your peace of mind is worth more than the few dollars the test will cost.

If the test comes back negative and you're still experiencing these uncomfortable symptoms, you need to let your doctor know, since it could be a sign that you're just having an issue with your birth control.

If the test comes back positive, give yourself a minute to gather your thoughts and know that no matter what you decide from there, trust yourself.

If you're already four days overdue for your period, I think there's a good chance that you just ovulated late and that you're not pregnant. At this point, most pregnancy tests pick up on pregnancy hormones and turn positive. Still, if your cycle doesn't arrive within the next few days, take a test once you're a week late. If it's still negative, let your doctor know so they can advise you from there (for the most part, they won't see you until you skip a couple of periods, but it's still a good idea to let them know).

A change in the size or color of your veins can be a sign of pregnancy, especially when they're surrounding your breasts and upper chest. This could be from an increase in blood flow during early pregnancy.

People with warmer skin tones also will notice that their veins appear more green than blue.

No, I don't think you're pregnant, especially with negative pregnancy tests. It sounds like you probably ovulated later than you were expecting and that could explain why you experienced pregnancy-like symptoms for two weeks - they were likely related to ovulation. The discharge actually sounds like spotting which is pretty common before your period starts.

That doesn't sound like implantation bleeding. You're right, typically with implantation bleeding there wouldn't be any clots and it wouldn't last more than a day or two, though I know we've all read anecdotal stories where women have what seems like a normal period only to find out they're pregnant, so it was wise to take the tests anyway. If you took the tests at least two days after the bleeding stopped then I would trust them.

Sometimes, periods are just wonky and different from past periods. If you continue to have lighter-than-normal periods, it's not a bad idea to bring that up with your doctor just to make sure it's not a sign of a treatable hormone or thyroid condition.

As for a lessened appetite and sleep issues, these could be related to hormones (ugh, we're always at some weird point in our cycle aren't we?), illness, or even anxiety. If they continue for more than two weeks and have a profound effect on your day-to-day functioning, let your doctor know.

With these symptoms, at 10 DPO, it's really hard to say since they could be early pregnancy related or just the usual PMS stuff. If these are your normal PMS symptoms, then chances are this is just progesterone causing you to feel yucky before your period starts.

Either way, I think that at this point, you should be able to take a pregnancy test and get an accurate result, especially since you are experiencing symptoms.

You could be because anytime you have unprotected sex, pregnancy is possible. Since I don't know how long your cycles usually are or when your last period was, I can't put those dates into a calculator, but you could! I like the one at the CountDownToPregnancy website where you'll find a pregnancy test calculator. That will give you the best idea of when to test and when you can expect certain things to be happening (like ovulation or implantation).

It's so hard to guess when your period is due when you have an irregular period! I experienced irregular periods after I weaned my youngest daughter from breastfeeding and it was extremely frustrating to have my periods come randomly.

To get a rough idea of when your period should come use a pregnancy test calculator (I always recommend the one at https://countdowntopregnancy.com) because it has a lot of information and a lot of different dates you can input for more accurate results). I know this is tricky with an irregular period, but it can at least give you an estimate of when you're due.

Since your cycle IS irregular go ahead and take a pregnancy test that way you're not more stressed, sitting around and holding your breath waiting for your period to show up.

Okay, let's do some math here:

If your period is due in nine days, then you're (very roughly) five days past ovulation which means that your symptoms right now are more likely due to either ovulation (especially since it's possible that you aren't five days past ovulation, rather currently ovulating or just ending it) or an infection. Urinary tract infections (UTIs) can mimic many pregnancy symptoms.

Right now it's too early to take a test but starting on Sunday, August 19th you could start taking a pregnancy test every other day until you either get a positive pregnancy test or your period.

Until then, watch out for worsening lower back pain, fever, pain when you use the bathroom and vomiting. If any of this happens, or if your symptoms get worse and you have negative pregnancy tests then you should let your doctor know so they can test for infection (it's a simple urine test).

You're right, early pregnancy symptoms and PMS are irritatingly similar. In my experience, symptoms a week before your period is more likely because your period is coming, not because you're pregnant. Typically, pregnancy symptoms aren't going to crop up until right around the time your period is due to start, or later.

However, we are ALL different, and it's also possible that if you're pregnant, you're further along than you think. To find out for sure, I would wait until you're about three days from starting your period. Take a test then and if it's negative, wait and see if you miss your cycle before testing again. With an early result test, you can get pretty accurate results three days out from the day of your expected period.

It's hard for me to say simply because you had unprotected sex so here's what I think you should do: first, get a pregnancy test. Since you don't know when your period is supposed to get here, get a test that tests earlier. I like First Response Early Response Six Days Sooner.

If that comes back positive, then I think you can certainly blame your symptoms on pregnancy.

If the test comes back negative, with all of the symptoms you're having, I believe you should accept it as negative and see a doctor if the vomiting is still happening because there's a possibility that you have an infection or a bug. And, if the vomiting is related to anxiety, then you should definitely talk to your doctor about that.

There's still a possibility you could be pregnant. For the most part, pregnancy tests are pretty accurate a few days before your expected period, however, you haven't been tracking your ovulation, then it's possible you ovulated later and your body still needs more time to produce enough pregnancy hormone to turn a test positive.

Next time you take a test, do it first thing in the morning, before you've had anything to drink, that way your urine is concentrated, giving you the best chance at an accurate result.

If the test is still negative, keep in mind that early pregnancy symptoms and premenstrual symptoms are similar and if you're looking for symptoms, you can always find them whether they're caused by pregnancy or normal menstrual hormones.

Yes, it's very possible that you're pregnant if you had unprotected sex while you were ovulating. If you haven't taken a pregnancy test already, then you could take one right now and get pretty accurate results.

If your period isn't due for a couple more weeks, then it's unlikely you're experiencing pregnancy symptoms already. However, if you're not charting your ovulation then it's possible you've ovulated earlier than you expected and that your symptoms are indicative of pregnancy. That's the frustration with hormones - whether they're from ovulation, PMS or pregnancy, they all kind of feel the same at first.

Since I don't know when you ovulated (or when you will) the best thing for you to do right now is hold tight and wait to take a pregnancy test until four days before your expected period (and make sure it's an early result test that checks for the lowest level of pregnancy hormone).

Until then, if the throwing up and diarrhea (which in itself is not a typical pregnancy symptom) continues then you should call your doctor. You might have a virus or infection causing you gastrointestinal distress.

I think that your chances of being pregnant are slim to none. Condoms, when used right, are very reliable.

To me, it sounds like you're dealing with ovulation symptoms which can include pain around the ovaries and lower back pain. Some women will even experience nausea, tiredness and bloating so it can feel confusingly similar to pregnancy symptoms. However, the timing you noted here goes right along with ovulation since that happens halfway through your cycle (around 14 days before your period is about to begin).

It's not unheard of to get these symptoms before ovulation takes place either, as your body gears up.

Keep using protection, properly, and you should feel comfortable knowing that your chances of getting pregnant are really low (according to Planned Parenthood, this method of birth control is 98% effective, so that's pretty good)!

There's a definite possibility that you're pregnant, given the timing of your ovulation. In many women's experience, sore breasts are one of the first symptoms of pregnancy, especially if it's not a usual PMS symptom for you.

Typically, most women will experience ovulation around the 14th day of their cycle. This means that on the 18th day of your cycle, you may still be experiencing the hormonal changes associated with ovulating, and you're less likely to be experiencing early pregnancy symptoms since you're not likely to have a fertilized egg implant until around the 24th day of your cycle (or around 4 days before your period is due).

It is possible you could still become pregnant this cycle, but at the moment you are probably not pregnant.

That the blood is brown indicates it's old blood, so it could be the start of your period, but if you're not experiencing a flow, then it does make you (and I) wonder if it's a symptom of implantation.

If I were you, I would take an at home pregnancy test, if you haven't already.

The symptoms you're describing can be indicative of typical PMS, but they're also super common for early pregnancy.

If you test comes back negative and you still don't experience a flow of blood over the next couple of days, I'd make an appointment with your doctor, preferably you OB if you have one, and let them know what's going on.

Since you took the Plan B within 72 hours of the unprotected sex, then according to Plan B's website, you have an "up to 89%" chance of NOT conceiving.

Also according to their site, it's not uncommon for women to experience, among other symptoms mentioned, breast tenderness and nausea caused by the Plan B.

If I were you, I would take a deep breath and know that you took the steps to prevent pregnancy, and just try to relax in that. Any time any of us have sex, even if we're using the most effective form of birth control, there's ALWAYS a chance of conceiving.

But right now, the odds are very much so in your favor, and there's only a slim chance you'll get pregnant from this.

I don't know how long your cycles typically last but based on an average 28-day cycle, no you couldn't be pregnant yet, but you could be ovulating or nearing ovulation. Symptoms of ovulation can certainly include nausea, cramp and sensitive breasts because of the surge of hormones. If you're still experiencing these symptoms leading up to your period, you could take an early detection pregnancy test starting four days before the day your period is due.

Well, the short answer is that yes, you could be pregnant because anytime you have sex there's a possibility of becoming pregnant.

Now for the long answer - since you don't know exactly when your period is due, it's hard to know for sure if the timing between you and your boyfriend was near your ovulation (when you're fertile for conception) or not. Some things to keep in mind about cramps is that they're not uncommon in the week before your period or the week that you're due to ovulate, which is generally about two weeks before the start of your next period.

If you want to know for sure if you're pregnant, I will buy a First Response Early Result pregnancy test. I like these the best for testing when you're unsure of when your period is due because they're sensitive and can detect pregnancy hormones pretty early on, plus the pink dye makes the lines easier to interpret. I would take one at the end of this week when you think your period could be due. If it's negative hold off on taking another one until next week which you also mentioned could be when your period is due to start. This way, if you are pregnant, you're covering the period until your next period is due.

If it turns out that you're not pregnant this time around, but you'd like to start trying, I will invest in an Ovulation Prediction Kit (OPK). It works a lot like a pregnancy test; only it'll let you know when you're ovulating and therefore fertile to conceive a baby so that you can time your sex around it.

That IS frustrating. And the even more frustrating answer here is that you wait. I would wait until the day you're supposed to get your period to test again. If that's just too much, (which I know it would be for me, especially when I was trying to get pregnant), hold off on testing again until the day after tomorrow. This should put you at one day before your period is due. This gives your body another 48 hours to build up the pregnancy hormones necessary to turn your test positive if you're pregnant.

Sometimes, you can be pregnant, and there isn't enough hormone in your body yet to tell the test that you're pregnant. This happened to me with my second daughter. There are also times that, for whatever reason, our PMS feels so much like pregnancy that it's easy to be convinced that's precisely what's happening.

One last thing, don't throw your test away right away. I know you're not supposed to read them after ten minutes, and I agree that's smart because as the test dries, it can give you a vague (FALSE) line that looks positive. However, as I mentioned earlier, I did get false negatives with my second daughter. When I finally got a positive, that line took a good two minutes to develop (whereas with my first baby, the test was blazing positive before I had finished peeing on it). So don't just look at straight away, get frustrated, and trash it. Give it a minute to develop one way or the other.

I know you're scared to test but it might help you to get it out of the way just so you can relax either way. Yes, period trackers aren't an accurate way to track your periods (I use one though too) but if you actually did ovulate on the day it said and had sex two days later, you wouldn't be likely to have conceived since that egg is only viable for 24 hours.

However, since you don't know 100% when you ovulated, and you're near or already late for your period, I'd take a test. I'd use an early result test, since you do have irregular periods, just in case your period isn't actually late yet.

It's possible, and I've heard stories from friends who didn't get a positive test until a couple of weeks later. However, at this point, I would stop into your doctor for a simple blood test to confirm. If their test comes back negative, then at least they'll also know that your period is delayed and can help you get it back on track if it doesn't take care of itself.

The most likely reason is that you're gearing up to start your period. However, if you've recently had unprotected sex, then the next best possibility is early pregnancy symptoms! If you haven't started your cycle yet, then I would take a pregnancy test because today would be your official "late" day.

Not every woman experiences implantation bleeding (IB) before getting a positive pregnancy test. I have never had implantation bleeding, personally, so not having it is not necessarily a sign that you're not pregnant.

Since you're so close to starting your cycle and since you've been actively trying to conceive, you should take a pregnancy test now.

I would wait to take another test until the bleeding has stopped. If the bleeding isn't related to your menstrual cycle and is instead pregnant related, then it's possible your body hasn't built up enough hormones for the test to give you a legitimate answer.

If the test you take after the bleeding stops comes back negative, then it's probably just a wonky period. However, if your periods continue to be lighter than usual, it would be a good idea to bring it up with your doctor.

Unless you have a long cycle (an average cycle is getting your period every 28 days), you are technically about a week late for your period.

My best advice for you is that if you haven't taken a pregnancy test yet, then you should. At this point, any brand/type should be okay since, if you are pregnant, the hormones would be built up enough in your body to ensure an accurate result on a test.

If the test comes back negative and you're still experiencing cramps, lower back pain and frequent urination you should see your doctor to rule out a urinary tract infection. Infections can delay your period, and they can also mimic pregnancy symptoms.

Since the test is negative I think there's a pretty good chance you're not pregnant but I also know that you must be feeling very frustrated at this point.

If you haven't taken a test in a couple of days, go ahead and take one more. It's totally possible that you ovulated late this cycle and that you're not as late for your period as you think or that you're pregnant but because of a late ovulation, you haven't been far along enough to get a positive test.

If the test comes back negative again and you're still dealing with shortness of breath you should talk to your doctor to rule out other causes of your symptoms like thyroid conditions which can cause late periods and shortness of breath but are easily treatable.

What you're describing is called "the pull out method" or "the withdrawal method," and doctors and just about everyone else have GREATLY debated the effectiveness.

Anecdotally, I could tell you that I know people it's worked for. Personally, I'm going to tell you it's a tricky birth control method in that you really need to do it perfectly for it to work and even then - you're playing with fire, so to speak. But I guess this could be true of any other birth control method, right?

According to Planned Parenthood, "For every 100 women who use the pull out method perfectly, 4 will get pregnant." Those aren't terrible odds, but they're not 100% either.

So to answer your question, the withdrawal method, when practiced without flaw is effective against pregnancy 96% of the time, according to Planned Parenthood's statistics.

If you'd like more information on birth control options I recommend https://bedsider.org where you'll find all kinds of articles and cool features on everything from condoms, the patch and yes, withdrawal to help you see all of your options for preventing pregnancy and how to obtain them.

If you decide to go with a method that takes less willpower talk to your OB or general physician about what they can offer you.

If you're saying that your period has been late and now you are suddenly bleeding, then it's possible that your period was just delayed. That's not uncommon, especially if you've recently dealt with stress, illness or a change in your sleep schedule. If you're suspicious that you may be pregnant go ahead and take a pregnancy test. At this stage, it should be accurate.

You're probably wondering if this is implantation spotting and it very well could be, especially since the bleeding started earlier than your normal cycle. A good way to tell the difference between implantation and the start of your period is if there's a flow. Do you have to change pads or tampons? If you are, then I would say this is just an early period.

Either way, just to reassure yourself, take a test on the day your period was supposed to start. If you really are pregnant, you should be able to get at least a faint positive at that point.

Yes, you could. A common misconception is that if you have intercourse during your menstrual cycle, you are less likely to get pregnant. However, since sperm live up to five days, if you were to ovulate shortly after your period ended, there's a possibility that you could become pregnant.

I think that you probably tested too early to get an accurate result either way. It's good that you checked for a UTI, that's really smart, and something that more women need to be aware of; sometimes what seems like pregnancy symptoms are indeed symptoms of a urinary tract infection. I'm glad that in your case they're not.

I think that it's likely you're actually experiencing symptoms of ovulation. Ovulation symptoms CAN cause some weird, unpleasant stuff like sore breasts and pain in pressure in the lower abdomen/pelvic region. Actually, I always get a lot of pain there during and following ovulation. My OB/GYN explained to me that that's because some women are extra sensitive to ovulation as small cysts form and burst during the release of the egg.

Since your period is due on Saturday, April 21st, you should hold off on taking another pregnancy test until Tuesday, April 18th at the earliest and from there take one every two days until you either get your period or a positive pregnancy test.

Since you had intercourse before your cycle ended, there's a couple of possibilities here:

First, perhaps you ovulated early, and your symptoms are pregnancy symptoms. Most women will ovulate halfway through their cycle, or, about two weeks after they first start their period. If you ovulated a few days early, you might have had enough time there to get pregnant.

If your cycle was regular and you ovulated on a typical schedule, then your symptoms are more likely actually BECAUSE of ovulation. Ovulation can absolutely make you gassy and give you a tugging or twitching near your ovaries which are to either side of your lower abdomen, under your belly button.

I would take a pregnancy test this Sunday, August 19th. That should put you right around a few days before your next period is due and give you a good chance of getting an accurate result from the test either way.

If the test is negative then the runny, stuffed nose might just be some good old fashioned summer allergies or worse, a summer cold which I'm personally sportin' right now.

There's a pretty solid chance you're pregnant, considering the timing of your ovulation. There's also a possibility that you have a virus or UTI. If it helps you feel better, I have hyperemesis gravidarum, so I get *super* sick when I'm pregnant, and I still don't experience symptoms like vomiting and extreme exhaustion until my period is already late.

To figure out what's going on, you need to take a pregnancy test first. Since your symptoms are already pretty extreme, if they're caused by pregnancy, you should get a positive by now. If the test comes back negative, then you might be dealing with PMS/anxiety (from the worry of course!) symptoms but if they continue or you experience pain and fever, call your doctor to rule out an infection.

In my experience, once you're late for your period, you can usually take a pregnancy test at any point in the day, and you'll get an accurate result. However, I do know a couple of people this wasn't true for! If your period continues to be late, then I would take another pregnancy test, but take it in the morning with your first urine of the day and trust that result.

I too get really exhausted right before and during the first day of my period. It's not fun, but it's not that uncommon. If it continues to be a problem for you, you can talk to your doctor. Extreme fatigue around your menstrual cycle can also be a sign of a treatable condition (like low iron, or a simple thyroid issue).

If, when you wrote this, you were 13 days late then the last time you tested was when you were only six days late. Since it's possible that you ovulated later than you expected it's also possible that you weren't as late as you thought you were when you first took the test.

You should take another pregnancy test, there's a possibility you're still pregnant. If, at the two-week mark, you're still getting negative tests and no period you should call your doctor and let them know what's going on. They may want to do a blood test to confirm whether or not you're pregnant.

Yes, you can still get pregnant using the withdrawal method. It is a form of birth control, but when done perfectly, 4 in 100 women will still get pregnant.

That being said, your symptoms are more indicative of ovulation than early pregnancy, since even if you do become pregnant, you won't feel signs from that until after ovulation. Ovulation happens about halfway through your cycle which means that you probably weren't ovulating or near ovulation when you had intercourse.

To be sure, you can start testing for pregnancy around four days before your expected period, but for the most accurate results you should hold off until the day your period is due.

It doesn't sound like you were or are pregnant. Spotting brown for two days could be an indication of implantation bleeding if that's the only bleeding you experience, but since you started your period, this spotting was likely just pre-cycle spotting.

If you're still not convinced, you can take a test after the bleeding stops just to make sure.

Something unfortunate about PMS is sometimes it can feel a lot like early pregnancy! Since your last period was short and not what it normally is, I would take a pregnancy test now (granted, you haven't started your next period).

If the test comes back negative and your periods continue to be extra short, talk to your doctor to find out if you might have a treatable hormone or thyroid condition affecting your cycle.

I mean, it certainly seems like you timed things in favor of becoming pregnant. I know it's hard to wait, but since you're roughly only 3 DPO (days past ovulation), it's still much too early to take a pregnancy test. However, your body could already be exhibiting signs of a shift. I would start testing on October 26th (so, in a week) and if you end up not being pregnant, and the discharge from your breast continues, check in with your doctor about that. It could be a sign of a treatable thyroid or hormonal condition (that could also possibly affect fertility).

However, if you stopped breastfeeding within the past couple of years, you might also mention that to your doctor since, weirdly and obnoxiously, lactation can continue a couple of years past weaning.

According to The Mayo Clinic, gonorrhea itself does not cause infertility and having had it would not affect your ability to get pregnant. However, gonorrhea can cause Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID).

If Pelvic Inflammatory Disease isn't treated properly, it can damage your reproductive organs which could lead to infertility or a lower chance of getting pregnant.

So here's what I think you should do - I think you should get in touch with the doctor who treated you for gonorrhea and find out if you were tested for pelvic inflammatory disease and if you were, what the results were. If you weren't tested, I would make an appointment to get tested.

Again, according to The Mayo Clinic, the test for PID would include a pelvic exam, where your doctor would check things out to see if there's any inflammation, scarring, etc. They would probably also take a sample of your urine and cervical fluids. All of this, along with any symptoms you describe to them, would be used to diagnose you (or not!) with PID.

Now, if it turns out you don't have PID, there are other fertility tests that you and your partner could undergo. Remember that it's possible that your partner is the one dealing with the fertility issues, not you. Most doctors, however, would probably not test you or your partner for fertility issues until it's been a full year of trying to conceive without success. That's because even in healthy couples who have zero fertility issues, it can still take a full year to you conceive!

In the meantime, to up your chances of conceiving I would invest in OPKs. These are tests that you pee on just like a pregnancy test, and they let you know when you're ovulating so that you know when to have sex. Conception is tricky in that there are only a few short days during the month that women are fertile enough to conceive. So even if it feels like you've been trying for months, the problem may just be in your timing.

If you did the pregnancy test directly after the bleeding stopped, then it's possible your test had a false negative. That's because, if your bleeding only lasted for two days, it could have been implantation bleeding, not a menstrual cycle, and if this is the case, a test won't turn positive for another couple of days after the bleeding stopped since it takes this long for the implanted fertilized egg to start sending signals to your body that it's pregnant.

If you took the test a while after the bleeding stopped and it was negative, another possibility is that you're entering perimenopause or menopause, depending on your age and other factors.

And, sometimes, periods are just wonky and do weird things without a good explanation. If your periods continue to be abnormally short for another cycle or two, talk to your doctor to see if it could be treatable hormonal or thyroid issue.

There's a pretty solid chance you're pregnant if you've had unprotected sex and your cycle is now late. You should take a pregnancy test.

You could be. I don't know when your period is due, or when you ovulated so it's hard for me to give you a clearer answer.

If you period is due or late and you're still getting negative pregnancy tests then I would say you're most likely not pregnant.

If your period was a week or more away when you tested, then you tested too early and there's a chance that you're pregnant.

Either way, I wouldn't consider bleeding for one day a period - that sounds more like breakthrough bleeding, implantation bleeding or an irritated cervix.

Because you've had sex, it is possible that you're pregnant, but if you used protection, especially a condom that was used properly, the chances are slimmer.

If your symptoms are indeed due to pregnancy, then you could start testing about four days before your expected period and likely get an accurate result. If it's negative the first time, wait two more days and test again. Continue testing this way until your period arrives or you get a positive test.

If your symptoms aren't due to pregnancy (which again, you're probably not pregnant if you used a condom properly each time), then they could be from ovulation, which can cause many of these symptoms, especially bloating and nausea, or, as you mentioned, PMS.

Another possible cause of your symptoms is a urinary tract infection (UTI), especially because you mention back pain and frequent urination. Having sex every day for six days could have exposed you to bacteria that would cause a UTI. Keep an eye out for fever, pain with urination or cloudy/foul smelling urine and if you notice any of these symptoms get into the doctor. They can test for a UTI the same way they test for pregnancy - with a simple urine test. You could even request both tests at the same time.

It's most likely that you're just experiencing a heavy period.

However, there's a possibility that you had a chemical pregnancy. This is when you do conceive but miscarry so early on that it seems like a period and you may miss the early signs and symptoms, so you mistake it for another period. If you didn't take a test before this happened then, it's hard to say, but more-than-usual clots, tissue, blood loss, and pain can all be signs of an early miscarriage.

If the bleeding continues longer than your normal period or if you have clots that are larger than a quarter you should call your doctor.

There's definitely a chance that you could still be pregnant, but since the test is negative and your period is late, I would say the chances are slim.

Let's say that spotting was implantation bleeding, and it occurred, according to the dates you're giving me, around March 16th. You should have been able to get an accurate pregnancy test around March 18th or 19th at the earliest, but by March 25th you should have almost certainly had a positive test IF the spotting was implantation.

Now, maybe it wasn't. Maybe it was something else and you had implantation later on, then it's possible that your body still hasn't sent out the pregnancy hormone required for an HPT to turn positive.

My best advice is to test again on the 27th. Test again every other day or until your period shows up. If you end up more than two weeks late call your doctor and ask for a blood pregnancy test. If that comes back negative then you and your doctor can talk about other things that could be causing your period to be late.

Almost always, a late period is not severe, and easy to troubleshoot.

I don't think you could have ovulated and had your period at the same time; your period will generally come about two weeks after you've ovulated. Sometimes it will be a little early or a little late, but not at the same time.

Taking this timing into consideration, I would hold off on testing again for at least another week. If you are pregnant then yes, it was too early to test on Monday.

If this was not your period, it could have been mid-cycle spotting or implantation bleeding (though that usually doesn't happen near your ovulation either).

If you continue to get negative tests and you experience an abnormal period or unusual bleeding again, I would contact your doctor.

I think there's a more than likely possibility that you're pregnant. If you have an irregular period, then I can see why you'd be hesitant to take a pregnancy test, since you may not technically be late. However, the spotting and other pregnancy signs, along with a seemingly late period suggests that you are probably pregnant. You need to take a pregnancy test like your doctor advised.

It could mean you have a stomach virus. When I have a stomach virus, the inflammation does cause stomach tightness and vomiting and then, of course, a headache. But if you've recently had unprotected sex, it could also mean you're pregnant. If you think that you might be pregnant, now would be a good time to take a pregnancy test. If you continue to feel sick, you should see a doctor.

For the most reliable result, your period should be one day late when you take a pregnancy test. But seriously, if you’re antsy to find out if you’re pregnant or not, then it’s way too hard to wait that long!

For most HPTs, you shouldn’t test any earlier than four days before the day your period is due, which is five days before your missed period.

If your period is due to start on Friday then with most tests you need to hold off on taking one until at least the Monday before. The reason is that pregnancy tests test for the hormone Human Chorionic Gonadotropin or, hCG for short. All women actually have a really tiny amount of this floating around in them already, no matter if they’re pregnant or not. What a pregnancy test does is measure that level through your urine. If the level is at a normal range for a woman who is not pregnant, the test will come back negative. But if the range is at a higher-than-normal level, implantation has occurred. This is when a fertilized egg attaches to the uterus, and thus, pregnancy occurs. The thing is though, implantation MUST occur for your body to start creating enough hCG for a pregnancy test to turn positive, and implantation doesn’t typically occur until right around when your period is due.

For this reason, you may have conceived during ovulation which happens a full two weeks before your missed period, but until the fertilized egg gets itself cozy in your uterus, your body can’t tell a test that it’s pregnant yet.

Thus, the closer you are to that missed period, the better chance you have of having an accurate result.

In my own experience, with my first daughter, I didn’t take a pregnancy test until I was a day late for my expected period. The test turned positive before I was done taking it.

With my second daughter, I was so eager to find out if I was pregnant or not that I took the test about six full days before my period was due. It was negative, but I just felt really strongly that I was pregnant and had taken the test too early because I was already starting to feel the symptoms I remembered from my first pregnancy. I was right! Two days later I took another pregnancy test, and it came back with a clear positive result. My body needed those two days to create enough hCG to tell the test that indeed, there was a little blastocyst in there.

Many women undoubtedly experience pregnancy symptoms as early as around seven days past ovulation and around seven days before their missed period.

Most at home pregnancy tests are not going to give you an accurate result this early on though, so you'll need to sit tight (I know it's so hard when you're trying to conceive!) until it's the right time to test.

If you use an early result brand like First Response (their early results products), you can usually start testing around five days before your period is due to start, though the odds that the result will be accurate goes up drastically the closer you get to the start of your menstrual cycle. Personally, I have never had an accurate result earlier than four days before my expected period.

It's possible. The mucus plug-like thing you saw could be a sign of implantation.

The other possibility though (among others that are less exciting, I guess), is that you could be dealing with perimenopause. Since I don't know your age, this could be totally off! But for most women perimenopause, which is the stage before true menopause, starts in your 30-40's and can cause late periods and all of the fun that comes with that.

Your best bet right now is to grab a pregnancy test and take it. Since you're already late, it doesn't matter what time of day you take it. Although rare, according to americanpregnancy.org, between 2-10 women out of every 1,000 will become pregnant after 5+ years following their tubal ligation. So, even though I bet this isn't what's going on with you, there is that slim possibility that inspires a pregnancy test purchase.

Since you had sex around the time of your ovulation, there's a good chance that you could have gotten pregnant, especially if you were trying to conceive. If you were using a reliable form of birth control, of course, your chances are much lower.

Since your period was not due for over a week when you took the pregnancy test, the results aren't reliable. It can be tempting and exciting to start testing as soon as you feel pregnancy symptoms, but it's not really a good idea because no home pregnancy test can give you a correct result that early.

Even though you may have conceived by definition of the egg being fertilized during ovulation, the fertilized egg must adhere to the wall of your uterus before your body starts sending out the pregnancy hormones that at-home tests detect. This is called implantation and doesn't happen until seven to ten days AFTER the egg is fertilized and after implantation occurs, it still takes another two days before your body starts sending out those hormones.

You don't want to start taking pregnancy tests until around five days before your period is due, at the earliest.

For the most accurate results, you should wait to take a pregnancy test until the day your period is due.

For reassurance, I've personally gone mad with symptoms like this. However, those are definitely common early pregnancy symptoms, especially constipation. Having your period a week early isn't totally out of the norm, but it could mean that your cycle off.

If I were you I would take a home pregnancy test now, just to confirm that that period was indeed a period and not implantation bleeding.

If it comes back negative, then your symptoms are probably related to ovulation hormones since your period was two weeks ago (meaning, if it was a true period, you should be ovulating soon here).

If it's not a false negative pregnancy test and you truly aren't pregnant, then the reason for the late period and pregnancy-like symptoms could just be prolonged PMS. Anecdotally, my PMS symptoms always worsen the later I get.

You could also be dealing with a hormonal imbalance or a thyroid condition, both of which are pretty treatable with a doctor's care.

For now, I'd stop taking pregnancy tests and give it a few days. If your period becomes two weeks late, call your doctor and let them know. I have a friend who couldn't get a positive on her pregnancy test until she was two weeks late!

Your symptoms certainly sound like early pregnancy, and it's definitely not unheard of to get a positive on one pregnancy test and a negative on another because of variables like what time of day you took it, how sensitive the test is, etc.

If the first one you took was clearly positive then I would ignore the ClearBlue and try a different brand to see what it says. I've encountered false positives on cheap tests before, but they were light. If the second line was very bright, then I would consider that negative.

So, if you haven't already, go out and grab another pregnancy test (not ClearBlue) and try again now that your period is late.

I'm not a doctor, and I can't say with absolute certainty that you aren't pregnant but straight up, no, I don't think you're pregnant at all. Messing around without penetration is not an effective way to get pregnant, and it's super unlikely that that's what's going on with you.

You might want to talk to your doctor about what is normal and not normal for periods while on the kind of birth control you're on or research it at bedsider.org.

Since I don't know the date of your last period or how long your cycles usually are, I can't put them into a pregnancy test timing calculator. If you'd like to do that, there's a really awesome one over at https://countdowntopregnancy.com.

Now, since you had unprotected sex about two weeks before your period was due to arrive, it's entirely possible that you did get pregnant. Most women ovulate around two weeks before the beginning of their period, and this is when we're most fertile.

I'm not sure when you took the test and what kind you took, and it IS possible to get a false negative due to user error. I've done it; taking one too early during a month that it turns out I was actually pregnant.

If I were you, I would buy another pregnancy test and take it right away. Since your period was due at the end of March, you're probably fine to take any brand at any time because if you're pregnant, there should be enough pregnancy hormone to get a positive test by now.

My personal favorite for testing is just a good ol' First Response with the pink lines, not the digital.

However, if you're nervous about interpreting the lines, you might want to opt for a digital which will give you a clear "YES" or "NO" answer.

If you take one and it still comes back negative, then take a deep breath and remember that there are a lot of totally innocent reasons that a period can be late without being pregnant, including just ovulating a little off schedule. If your period ends up being more than two weeks late and you still have negative tests call your doctor and let them know. They may not do anything until you've missed at least two periods, or they may have you come in to explore other reasons your period could be late.

Apart from pregnancy, a late or missed period isn't usually serious at all.

Since the blood is brown, this would indicate that it's old blood rather than fresh blood. Why it would go on for nearly a month though I'm really not sure. I could take a few guesses that include an infection, an irritation to your cervix or a reaction to birth control.

I don't think it would have to do with pregnancy, but if you want to take a pregnancy test, it won't hurt. After that, contact your doctor and make an appointment to be seen. They can give you a pap smear to rule out more serious conditions, and then from there troubleshoot the cause, so you don't have to deal with the brown spotting long term.

If the last time you had sex was around two months ago, and you had regular periods after that then I would suspect the spotting has nothing to do with pregnancy.

A few possibilities for the spotting are:

- An infection. If you have an infection, ranging from a UTI to an infection in your reproductive organs, this can cause spotting between cycles.

- Ovulation spotting. Sometimes, in the middle of our cycle, when we're ovulating, spotting can occur.

- Perimenopause. If you're in your 30's or 40's it's possible that you're entering your pre-menopause years and the hormone fluctuations can cause spotting between cycles.

To ease your mind, you should go ahead and take a pregnancy test. Rarely, some women do experience what looks like regular periods while they're pregnant which can be super confusing!

If that test comes back negative, keep an eye on the spotting, and if it continues, let your doctor know. Even though it's annoying to experience mid-cycle spotting, it's not usually a huge cause for concern, but if you do have an infection, you'll want to treat it properly.

It's definitely not typical to get your period and then get it again the next week. I would say that more than likely, this second "cycle" was not a period, because you would have needed to ovulate between those periods. Hold off on taking a pregnancy test unless your period is late.

If you get your next period at the regular time that you're expecting it but then experience another mid-cycle bleed, you should talk to your doctor.

Those could indeed be signs of the first trimester of pregnancy. If you think there's a chance that you could be pregnant, you should take a home pregnancy test. If it comes back negative, then the reasons for your symptoms could be something as simple as battling a virus.

If you just lost your breath from swimming, then you may have over-exercised, but if it occurs, then I would talk to your doctor just to make sure it's nothing that needs to be addressed.

I've certainly heard of women not getting a positive result for two weeks after their missed period - one of my good friends is one of those women. She found out with her first that she was pregnant when she was already six weeks along!

If you've been taking at home tests, though, and they're negative, then the chance that you're pregnant isn't super high (but it's not out of the realm of possibility either).

You're doing the best thing by going to the doctor for confirmation. If their test comes back negative, then they can help you troubleshoot why your period hasn't started. That's almost always an easy fix, and it isn't usually a big concern.

I hope you get the answer you want!

According to https://americanpregnancy.org, the chances are getting pregnant while using Depo-Provera correctly are less than 1%. To put that in perspective, those are around the same odds as getting pregnant after your partner has had a successful vasectomy.

So, in a word, no. You're very unlikely to get pregnant on Depo-Provera.

Sore breasts can undoubtedly be a sign that your period is coming but they can also be a sign of early pregnancy, especially if the sides and underarms are sore as well. Since your period is late, now is a great time to take a pregnancy test. You could opt for a less expensive and less sensitive test at this point in your cycle, too.

I think that a cheap pregnancy test is worth the peace of mind! This is totally anecdotal, but I do know more than one person who has become pregnant on birth control. Birth control is very effective, but no form guarantees 100% safety. With certain types of birth control, the risk of an ectopic pregnancy is higher, so that's a good reason to be aware of any change in symptoms. I would take a test, and in your case, I'd probably buy a digital with a simple yes/no answer so that you can move forward definitively. Either way, I hope you feel better!

It's totally possible to be pregnant with "signs" of pregnancy, especially because if your PMS symptoms are strong and you become pregnant, those symptoms, in comparison, may seem minuscule!

Since you say you have irregular periods, and you have this instinct that you may be pregnant, now would be as good a time as any to take a pregnancy test. If it comes back negative and if your periods continue to be lighter or more spread out that usual I would let your doctor know. It can be a sign of a treatable thyroid condition.

Yes, if you have a normal cycle (which is, on average, twenty-eight days, though it varies from woman to woman), then your period should have arrived around February 20th.

However, something to keep in mind is that, although they're helpful for having a general idea of when your period is due and when you're fertile, pregnancy, ovulation and period trackers can't accurately tell you when you've ovulated or when you're fertile based merely on dates. That's because sometimes we ovulate earlier than expected, later than expected, or, sometimes, just not at all. An app won't know that unless you're also temping and charting.

You should take one more test. If you ovulated late, it's possible that it was too early for a test to show positive. If that test is still negative, then you can call your doctor or OBGYN and let them know what's going on. They can perform a simple blood test that's usually more accurate and sensitive than a urine test to check for pregnancy.

Unfortunately, it's that time of year when we're all passing viruses along to each other, and it's possible that your off-feeling and late period have to do with a virus.

These are all symptoms that are common to early pregnancy, but they're also common to premenstrual syndrome, so it's possible that you're just on the cusp of starting your next cycle.

It's also possible that you're coming down with a virus since it's that germy time of year.

A common misconception is that you can't get pregnant during your period, but that's not true since sperm can live for days, and ovulation can happen earlier than predicted.

If you want to take a test to see if you're pregnant, I would use a pregnancy test timing calendar to get an idea of when you can start testing. It will have you input the dates of your last period and how long they usually last for to give you a reasonably accurate date to begin testing.

If you've been off birth control and actively trying to get pregnant, then yes, there's a good chance you are pregnant. If you're late for your period, then you should go ahead and take a pregnancy test.

Keep in mind that it can take several months, and in some cases up to a year, to become pregnant when actively trying. The nausea is a pretty good indicator of pregnancy, but it is also a common PMS symptom.

I think that the pink spotting could be indicative of implantation, but remember that not everyone (myself included) experiences this symptoms of early pregnancy.

I put your dates into a pregnancy test calculator and technically, you're still too early to get an accurate result on a pregnancy test. I tried it with a normal ovulation schedule along with an earlier than normal ovulation schedule. Taking into account the possibility that you ovulated quite early in this cycle, you still probably won't get an accurate result until Saturday March 3rd.

Yes, these symptoms can be indicative of pregnancy. The first thing you should do is take a pregnancy test. If it comes back negative, you'll want to call your doctor and let them know what's going on. These symptoms can also be as a result of a treatable thyroid condition.

Soreness or sensitivity around your breast and nipples is definitely an early pregnancy sign, especially if it's not a symptom that you usually experience before your period. Although, nipple discharge isn't quite as common that early on; it often comes on a little later in pregnancy.

These symptoms can also indicate a treatable thyroid condition or suggest that you've recently breastfed, and by recently I mean within the past couple of years.

Since you have an IUD in place and you're experiencing abnormal symptoms, I would definitely take a pregnancy test if you haven't already, and if the symptoms continue or get worse, go to your doctor. Although it's pretty uncommon, pregnancy while wearing an IUD can be dangerous as you have a higher chance of ending up with an ectopic pregnancy.

Depending on your DPO (days past ovulation) these could indeed be early symptoms of pregnancy.

While every woman has a different cycle, in general, we measure cycles from the first day that menstruation starts to the length of time it takes for the first day of the following menstruation to start as 28 days.

Ovulation typically happens halfway through that cycle, around day 14, and each day following that is considered "the two week wait" when pregnancy symptoms may start appearing before the missed period.

Most home pregnancy tests will give you an accurate result from the day that your period is due, but there's also a lot of brands that offer early-results before your period is due and you can start taking these about five days before your period is due, although they're more accurate with each day that you near your period due date.

If you continue to experience these symptoms I would definitely take a pregnancy test!

That depends on who you ask, honestly. Some people will tell you to lay back with your hips propped up by a pillow afterward, some people will tell you to only eat certain types of foods or to do some crazy ritual. My best advice for conceiving during ovulation is to just really make that fertile time count - get down to business as often as possible and in general, try to live a healthy lifestyle that includes a nutritious diet, regular exercise and staying away from cigarettes and other substances that wouldn't positively contribute to your health. And, it's cliche, but try not to stress out too much. Easier said than done, I know.

Also, if you're not currently, I would track your ovulation either through temping, ovulation tests or both, to make sure you're right on target!

From the dates you gave me, your chances are there but they're slim, with the 17th being your best chance for conceiving since sperm live an average of three days with a maximum of five days.

Since you ovulated on February 21st, you could probably start testing fairly accurately with an early result pregnancy test starting on March 3rd.

This time of year can be confusing when it comes to pregnancy and allergy symptoms which aren't that different in the first trimester!

I'm not sure when you had your ultrasound done, but if it was recently, say, within the last week, then it wouldn't have shown you if you were pregnant or not since it was confirmed that you were ovulating. If it's been at least ten days since your ultrasound, it won't hurt to pick up an early detection pregnancy test, like a First Response Early Response and take one with your first pee of the day.

If it hasn't been that long since your ultrasound, wait until the day your period is due and take a test then - the result should be accurate whether it's positive or negative.

Now about those pesky symptoms! Yes, dizziness, sinus pressure and pain, headaches and gagging/nausea are not uncommon in early pregnancy for many of us. That's because when you become pregnant your body works really hard to create extra blood for the baby and in doing so other weird things happen like sinus congestion which can leak into the back of your throat and upset your gag reflex, causing gagging and nausea. So fun!

The other thing that can cause these symptoms that isn't uncommon in the spring is seasonal allergies which I'm personally dealing with as I type this. So, if your test comes back negative and you're still dealing with these symptoms, especially this dizziness and sinus pressure/headaches let your doctor know and ask if the cause could be allergies and what type of allergy relief they recommend for you. Taking my over the counter allergy tab every day this time of year really helps me to function though I still have bouts of dizziness and nausea thanks to the post nasal drip.

If it's been less than a week since you had unprotected sex, then I would say it's unlikely you're experiencing pregnancy symptoms. If it's been around or over two weeks since you had sex, then it would be a good idea to take an at-home pregnancy test.

If you're still unsure after you take the test, call your OB or the doctor who prescribed the Depo-Provera and let them know what's going on and about your fears. They'll be able to counsel you on what to do going forward and on birth control options that might fit into your schedule better.

Periods aren't an exact science, unfortunately, especially when it comes to their timing. Before I look at your specific dates in relation to pregnancy, I want you to pull up a calendar for April 2018, and we're going to go over some hypothetical dates.

Let's say your period comes on April 1st, 2018 and you have a 28-day cycle (this is the average and most typical length of time that a woman's cycle lasts). You would get your period 28 days after April 1st, which is April 29th. Not only would you get two periods in one month, but the first period would also be at the beginning of the month and the second period would be at the end of the month. Confusing, but not at all irregular and in fact this is the clinical example of a "typical" period. Now let's say your second period is just two days late - you would begin that second period on May 1st, putting your period back into the first week of the month.

A good way for you to see just how regular or irregular your periods are is to use a period tracking app. I like Flo; it lets you track a lot of other stuff too.

Now, to your pregnancy question - since I don't know how long your average cycle lasts, I can't make an educated guess on when you probably ovulated. But, going off from a typical cycle, I think March 1st would have been too early for you to get pregnant unless you ovulated quite early. The most likely days for your ovulation and the highest chances of conception were probably around March 7th through the 11th.

All of that being said, you can check out the pregnancy test calculator for yourself at CountDownToPregnancy(dot)com where you can put in the start date of your last period (February 23rd) and then put in the average length of your cycle to find out when you should start testing for pregnancy. Personally, I think the best day for you to test would be on March 24th. This would be day 29 of your cycle, and unless you have very long cycles, you'd probably get an accurate result.

It's too early for you to take a pregnancy if your last period began on March 7th.

According to a typical cycle, you'll want to hold off on testing until the first week of April.

The symptoms you're describing, especially pain on just one side of your lower stomach, along with the date of your last period is indicative of ovulation.

Ovulation happens roughly two weeks before the start of our next period. When ovulation occurs an egg is released from on of the Fallopian tubes and this happens at random which is why this month you feel it on your right side and next month you might feel it on the left side.

Experiencing pain and sickness during ovulation is called "mittelschmerz" which means "middle pain" in German.

I've spent a lot of years reading about this in the forums on BabyCenter, and the thing I've learned from studying other women is that there's honestly no single answer for this.

From what I've read and experienced myself, early pregnancy discharge is typically whitish in color has a milky, thin consistency.

Of course, for each woman, because we all react slightly differently to pregnancy hormones, this isn't necessarily a good indicator of pregnancy.

Since I don't know when you started your period I can't put your dates into a calculator to see if there's a possibility that you were fertile during March 8th through March 17th.

You should visit https://countdowntopregnancy.com, where they have a really user-friendly pregnancy test calculator. You'll be able to put in the start of your last period and your average cycle length (the number of days between the first day of one period and the first day of the next period), and it will tell you when the best time to take a pregnancy test is.

According to Planned Parenthood, when practiced correctly, the withdrawal (or pull out) method is effective in preventing pregnancy 96% of the time. That means 4 out of every 100 women who use this method correctly will still end up pregnant. So yes, there's a chance you could be pregnant, but the odds of not being pregnant are certainly still in your favor.

Since you're not sure when you ovulated, and since you have irregular cycles, I would start testing for pregnancy no earlier than April 3rd and then if that test is negative test every OTHER day until the arrival of your period or until you get a positive test.

Since you don't know when you ovulated it's entirely possible that those symptoms right after "ovulation" were actually ovulation symptoms, which many women (including me) experience.

The chances are good that you're not pregnant but if you are, then there are lots of resources available to help you find the best path for you going forward.

And if (most likely) you're not pregnant check out Bedsider(dot)org which is a really awesome website that breaks down each method of birth control so you can make sure that you're using the one that gives you the most confidence!

I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your pregnancy in December.

I would say that since you had a negative pregnancy test yesterday, you're experiencing menstrual symptoms and the spotting is likely just the start of your period, not indicative of a miscarriage at all.

It's so tricky to decipher early pregnancy symptoms from PMS, that's for sure, but in your case, it sounds like your cravings, heightened sense of smell and breast pain can all be attributed to premenstrual symptoms. I experience all of those symptoms myself in the week to week and a half leading up to my period. That's because there's a rise in hormones before our period that's similar to the increase in hormones experienced in early pregnancy.

In short, no, I don't think you're experiencing a miscarriage, and I don't think that you're pregnant this month.

Because early pregnancy symptoms can also be indicative of a variety of other conditions, it's hard to say for sure why you're experiencing these symptoms.

The first thing you should do since your period is a week late now is to take a home pregnancy test. At this point, it should be pretty accurate. If it comes back positive, call you general doctor or OB right away and let them know so they can tell you what steps to take.

If the test comes back negative and you continue to experience these symptoms, you should call your doctor to troubleshoot the cause which could be anything from a winter virus to treatable conditions like insomnia or a thyroid condition.

Missing your period and then feeling sick and getting negative pregnancy tests is seriously the most frustrating thing ever. I've personally been there, and I know how infuriating and confusing it feels. It's like your body is playing tricks on you and then the anxiety of worrying if something else is wrong makes everything feel worse.

My best advice is first, you need to take a deep breath.

If you missed your period two weeks ago and you're still getting negative pregnancy tests then, except for the slim chance that you ovulated very late and it's still too early to get a positive pregnancy test, it doesn't sound like you're pregnant.

It sounds more like you have a delayed or missed period and your body is either getting ready to ovulate, getting ready to start that period (finally) or like you're dealing with a virus which could also be the cause of your missed period.

Going way, way back to our ancestors, our menstrual cycles revolved around conception. Back in the day when there were limited resources, our bodies would delay ovulation if an illness was coming on because we couldn't have sustained a pregnancy and an illness back then - there were no grocery stores, walk-in clinics or Gatorade.

That means that if you've been sick or stressed it's possible that this is the reason your period is so late, not pregnancy.

If you can, I think you should contact your doctor and let them know your symptoms and about your late period. They can give you a simple blood test to confirm whether or not you're pregnant.

In the meantime, hang in there - you're not the first, and you certainly won't be the last woman to feel sick with a late period and negative HPTs! This almost never indicates a serious issue.

Those symptoms could certainly indicate pregnancy, especially since it sounds like you're actively trying to conceive. When I was pregnant with my first daughter I thought that I was experiencing cold and flu symptoms but it turns out it was early pregnancy signs.

If I were you I would wait to take a test for one more day. Begin testing the morning of March 13 and if the test is negative, wait to test again until the morning of March 15.

Something to keep in mind is that although ovulation apps and calendars are really helpful, unless you're temping and charting, or confirming ovulation with an OPK, it can be difficult to know for sure when or if you've ovulated.

I can totally understand the fear in taking a pregnancy test because you want it to be positive and if you take a test too early, then there's a real possibility that it could turn up as a false negative.

Since I don't know the date of your last period I can't put your dates into a pregnancy test calculator to see when a good time to test would be, however, you can do that - I like the one at CountDownToPregnancy.com

The other thing I would suggest if you're hoping to actively try to get pregnant is to make an appointment with your OB to talk about your best options. They may refer you to a fertility specialist to help you have the best resources and treatments for having a baby.

These could definitely be pregnancy symptoms, but they can also be symptoms of other issues. Needing to use the bathroom shortly after eating can, for instance, be a sign of acid reflux or irritable bowel syndrome. It can also simply be a sign of a mild stomach bug.

If you haven't taken a home pregnancy test yet, then you should definitely do that. That way you can move forward knowing whether or not you're pregnant. If your symptoms persist make sure to let your doctor know so they can help you find a treatment plan.

If you still have not gotten your usual period then, by all means, yes, you could be pregnant, and you need to take a pregnancy test.

If you did get your period, then, unfortunately, these symptoms can also be attributed to premenstrual symptoms. Oh, the fun of being born female!

As a side note, if you're still experiencing a lot of severe pain (that makes it difficult to walk), you should call your doctor.

If you're late for your period and you haven't done so already, take a pregnancy test. If the stomach pain feels like period cramping, that could be a sign you're pregnant! But if the pain is more like what you might experience when you have a stomach bug then it's more likely you're dealing with a virus, infection or another type of condition.

If the pain and loss of appetite continues over the next couple of days, or gets worse, you should put a call into your doctor to let them know, so that they can rule out anything that might need to be treated. They can also test your urine to see if the reason behind your symptoms is pregnancy.

Yes, you can be pregnant even if you're only experiencing typical PMS symptoms. Remember that the hormones that happen during pregnancy and the hormones associated with menstruation are similar and it's not uncommon for some women to experience zero pregnancy symptoms until they're further along in their pregnancy (usually around six weeks which is two weeks past your expected period).

Insomnia isn't fun; I'm sorry you're dealing with it. First, if you haven't already, you need to take a pregnancy test. If that's negative pick up some melatonin (1mg to start) and follow the directions on the bottle to help you break your insomnia cycle. It's possible that your insomnia is why your period is late, since a change in your sleep patterns can affect your menstrual cycle.

However, insomnia can also be a sign of pregnancy! So, if that test is positive, then the chances are good that the insomnia is due to that. If it is, you'll want to get advice from your OB or general doc to see what is safe to help you get a better night's sleep while pregnant.

Well, I think the chances are in your favor since you're actively trying to conceive right now. You did all of the right things to give yourself the best opportunity to get pregnant this month.

According to data on the Countdown to Pregnancy website, at 6 DPO there aren't many positive indicators of pregnancy yet (although I think many women would disagree with that). But just for science's sake, here they are:

- Dizziness (which you've indicated)

- Weepiness

- Headache

The one positive indicator that, according to that site, can be noticed this early on is sore breasts which you're experiencing. In my own experience, one way I was always able to tell the difference between early symptoms and just regular PMS symptoms is if they were out of my PMS norm. For instance, getting sore under my arms and the sides of my breasts is not normal for me when I'm going to start my period, but it's an obvious pregnancy symptom for me.

Because I know that you're anxious to find out, I would start taking a test on 10 DPO and then once every other day from there until you either get a positive test or start your period.

A doctor should never lie to you about performing a procedure and I would be very surprised if they did. However, since you feel uncertain about whether or not the hysterectomy was performed you need to call your primary care physician and let them know about your symptoms and that you were told you were given a hysterectomy. This is important because your symptoms, especially the vomiting, shortness of breath and weakness are concerning after surgery (C-section) and your doctor needs to be made aware of them to make sure you're not dealing with a post-surgery infection.

So call your doctor right now and before you go to your appointment, pick up a home pregnancy test. If by some stretch you're pregnant, the test will give you an accurate answer at this point.

I don't know when your period is due so I don't know when you should take a pregnancy test. However, given your timing and symptoms, I don't think it's too early for you to take a pregnancy test, especially as light spotting without starting your period is pretty suspect of pregnancy.

Yes, the 26th of June would have been too early for an accurate result. It also would have been so early on that I don't think the x-ray would have impacted a pregnancy. Also, a blood test is more accurate than a urine test, so I think that's a trustworthy result for sure!

You wouldn't have technically been pregnant until implantation which happens just before a missed period. Regardless of when you had the x-ray, you couldn't have been pregnant.

These do sound more like typical PMS things than pregnancy-related symptoms. Usually, early signs of pregnancy will include food aversions although getting lightheaded and even sweaty from the shift in hormones isn’t unheard of.

The odds of getting pregnant on the Depo shot are only about every 3 in 1,000 women using it correctly - those are slim chances.

Some women will continue to have periods even after receiving the injection, and that could explain why you’re feeling so off right now. If I were you, I would take a test in a few days just to make sure. If the test is negative and the icky feelings continue, call your primary doctor or whoever administered the birth control and just let them know what’s going on. It may be usual side effects, a virus or something that needs treatment so you can get back to your old self!

Swollen breasts are a very common indicator of pregnancy, especially after your missed period. If you haven't already, you need to take a pregnancy test, and if it comes back, negative put a call into your doctor about your headaches and lower back pain which could be a sign of a simple infection, especially if you also have a fever. As for stretch marks on your breasts and stomach, if these are new, this would indicate quick weight gain, which doesn't usually happen in early pregnancy but could be a sign that you're dealing with a thyroid issue. This is all the more reason to call your doctor.

It sounds like you're really not feeling good at all! It's possible that you're having an extra-bad premenstrual week or that you're dealing with an illness but to get down to the bottom of things you need to take a pregnancy test first to see if that's the cause of your symptoms.

Since your period isn't due for four more days, it's possible that it's too early yet to take a pregnancy test. However, since your symptoms are so pronounced, I think there's a good chance you'll get an accurate result either way. So get an early result pregnancy test (one that can tell you before your missed period) and take that. If it's negative and your symptoms continue past the day you're supposed to start your period you should call your doctor.

All of these symptoms are experienced by all of us at different points, depending on what our hormones are doing and if we're coming down with a bug or even dealing with an infection.

In my experience, once you're pregnant, symptoms don't come and go much in the beginning. Once one comes, it stays for a while. To me, that's a good way to tell the difference between pregnancy symptoms and PMS symptoms.

You should take a test now. If your period is late, it's fine to take a test! For the most part, once you're late, the test will be 99% accurate.

That being said, yes, losing so much weight so quickly can absolutely delay or stop ovulation which would explain your late period.

Having your period for only one day can mean you're pregnant. A one-day period that's caused by pregnancy isn't a period at all; it's implantation bleeding. This happens when a fertilized egg implants in your uterus and a bit of blood is lost. This also typically happens around the time you would expect your period, so it's easily mistakable for a period. However, it would be much shorter and lighter.

If you haven't already, you should take a pregnancy test. If it's negative and you continue to have abnormal bleeding and symptoms of sickness, call your doctor to get down to the bottom of things.

It's really hard for me to guess if these are signs of pregnancy since I don't know when you ovulated. However, you probably wouldn't have symptoms one day after sex so that I would discount the cold as a sign of pregnancy.

As for the bloating and abdominal pain, these could be early pregnancy symptoms, but they're also common things to experience before your period. Since there's a chance you could have conceived, then you should start testing four days before your period is due and if the test is negative, hold off and test two days later (you can do this until your period either arrives, or you get a positive pregnancy test).

At this point, if your period is nine days late, any time would be a good time to take a pregnancy test for an accurate result.

I would trust the first, positive one. If you're not late for your period yet then there's a really good chance that you just didn't have enough hormone in your urine to get a positive on the second test. You should test again tomorrow morning with your first morning urine, that way it'll be concentrated - if the test is negative again then it's possible the spotting is due to a chemical pregnancy (a very early miscarriage). If the test is positive, then the spotting may have been implantation bleeding.

Either way, if the bleeding gets heavy and the pain worsens, call your doctor or OB and let them know (and make sure they know about that first positive test).

This one is tricky because if you had a positive pregnancy test last week then yes, you were pregnant when you took that test. Spotting can be an indication of a problem with the pregnancy, like a miscarriage, but you're saying that it's just spotting without a flow. Typically with a miscarriage, there's a flow, cramping, and clots. I don't know if you're still pregnant, but you definitely were last week. Here's what you should do:

First, take another pregnancy test. As long as you don't have a flow of blood, you should be able to take another test. If it's negative, then I would take that as a sign that you're experiencing a miscarriage.

If the test is still positive, especially if the test line is still as dark as it was (or hopefully, even darker), then there's a good chance you're still pregnant, and the spotting is some kind of breakthrough bleeding which isn't unheard of in the first trimester.

Once you've taken the test, whatever the result, call your doctor or find an OB and let them know what you told me - that you had a positive pregnancy test last week and now you've been spotting for several days. They'll possibly want to do two blood draw - one when you come in and another a couple of days later to confirm if you're pregnant and if the pregnancy is progressing or ending. They may also do an ultrasound. I know that this stuff can be frustrating, exciting and scary all at once so hang in there and just get down to the bottom of things.

You should take a pregnancy test. The pill is pretty effective if it's taken properly but since you don't feel like you've taken it as directed, and since you're a week late for your period, now would be a good time to take a test. At this point, it should be accurate, so whether it's positive or negative, you can trust it.

There is a chance of course, that you're just late for your cycle and that you're experiencing PMS symptoms (I also get that salty thing going on when I have PMS) but you won't be able to relax and know either way unless you grab a test and take it.

I honestly couldn't guess because I'd need your expected period dates and to know if you had sex near your ovulation, so here's my best advice - if you're experiencing flu-like symptoms, along with pain and a cough I would let your doctor know. Any time you have unprotected sex, there's a possibility of becoming pregnant and your doctor could give you a quick urine pregnancy test while you're there. Because even if you are pregnant, you could still be sick with a virus or infection with symptoms like a cough, and you'd want to get that taken care of properly.

One place I really like to go to get an idea of when to expect my period and dates where conception is possible, along with when the best time to test would be is the website CountDownToPregnancy. They have tons of tools on there that helped me when I was experiencing my own pregnancies.

Yes, you can get a false negative blood pregnancy test if you take it a week before your expected period and if implantation hasn't yet occurred. It's not uncommon for implantation to happen right around the time of your expected period. That's one reason it's a good idea to avoid blood and urine pregnancy tests until just a couple of days before or after your expected period.

Yes, if the spotting was because of implantation (when a fertilized egg adheres to the uterine wall), then you could certainly begin feeling early symptoms now. I would wait a couple of more days to test though so that if the spotting was indicative of implantation, you're giving your body enough time to build up those hormones for an accurate test result.

Because hormones are a huge bummer. If you recently had two negative blood tests and your doctor confirmed to you that you're not pregnant, then you're not pregnant.

I can see why you're feeling so frustrated though - according to a typical cycle; you're about two weeks late for your expected period. I don't know what your normal cycle (the number of days between periods) is though, so I can't say for sure how late you are, exactly, or if you are at all.

Here are some reasons your period may be late:

- You ovulated late because of an illness, stress or some other factor and your period is coming later because of that.

- You are entering perimenopause or menopause, the time when periods become irregular and your fertility declines.

- You took tests too early. This is unlikely, but there's a chance that you took your tests too early and that you're pregnant but didn't have enough hormone built up in your body at the time of the tests to get an accurate result.

Here's what I think you should do:

1. Write down your symptoms.

2. Call your regular doctor to make an appointment to talk about these symptoms (mainly, feeling sick, constipated and having heartburn) and your missed period.

Constipation can cause heartburn and feeling sick, so talking to your doctor is going to help you get down to the bottom of your symptoms. If you're dealing with GERD or another digestive issue, this could explain why you're feeling so awful and is pretty easy to treat.

I wonder if it could be implantation bleeding and you just tested a little early, however, it's weird that the bleeding was so many days apart. Typically, from what I know about IB, it would happen within one or two consecutive days. If your cycle is usually long (over 28 days) then again, you may just be testing too early. By CD 33 you should be able to get a more accurate result than you did last week, since at this point you would normally be late or getting pretty close to your expected period. Since you don't want to waste another test, I would wait until you are at least a week late for your period (whenever that is/was) and if it's still negative and you don't get your period pretty quickly, call your doctor and let them know about the spotting too.

You could be, but experiencing a clear or white nipple discharge can also mean that you've recently stopped breastfeeding. (Yes, lactation can occur up to three years after weaning.) Or it may be a treatable thyroid condition.

I would wait to test until the day before your period is due to start and if the test is negative and the discharge continues even after your period ends, let your doctor know.

In my experience, if you're feeling a lot of pregnancy symptoms and the test comes out negative, then those symptoms are not caused by pregnancy hormones, pre-menstrual hormones caused them. Unless you tested super early, I'd trust the test. If you tested more than four days before your period was due, however, retest closer to your expected period to get an accurate result.

Typically, most women will experience an increase in saliva in early pregnancy as opposed to dry mouth. However, frequent urination and trouble sleeping, especially towards the end of pregnancy, are common symptoms.

My best advice here is to take a test near your period. You could start taking tests as early as four days before your period is due to start and then test every other day. If your period arrives and your symptoms persist, talk to your doctor because they can be a sign of other treatable conditions.

With a First Response test, you want to make sure to follow the guidelines for early testing (and also check out the percentages of accurate results as they change drastically in just 48 hours).

As of the time I'm answering this, you're now five days away from your expected period, and this is the earliest a First Response test claims to be reliable, so if you took one earlier than today it wasn't accurate.

Go ahead and start testing today. Personally, I think the best way to test early on is to use the dip method (pee in a cup and dip the test) that way you can make sure you're immersing the test strip for long enough, giving you a better chance of a reliable result. If it comes back negative, try not to fret. It's still really early to be testing! Take another one on June 27th. If that one is negative, wait again to test until June 29th.

The reason for testing only every other day is that pregnancy hormones double every 48 hours in early pregnancy. So, if your hormones aren't high enough to be read today, they may be much higher in 48 hours.

Between four and six weeks, but they get progressively more noticeable as time goes on.

Something to keep in mind about pregnancy symptoms is that though you may have unprotected sex during ovulation and an egg may be fertilized, most women won’t notice this part and any symptoms felt during this time are actually symptoms of ovulation, NOT pregnancy since you’re technically not pregnant yet.

Fertilization (which again, is when a single sperm meets the eggs that have been released during ovulation) usually happens around two weeks before your period is due to start.

After that happens, it can take over a week for that fertilized egg to implant into the uterus. At this point, you’re just days away from the due date of your period, but this is when many women report they began to feel early signs of being pregnant.

Does that mean you can’t feel symptoms before implantation? No. You could, since a fertilized egg creates a change in your body that can affect your hormones. However, the symptoms will get stronger once the fertilized egg has implanted into the uterus and begun to send out signals to your body (the same signals that turn urine and blood pregnancy tests positive) to say “Hey, we’re definitely having a baby over here!”

If the only time you've recently had unprotected sex was only five days ago, then the chances that your symptoms are caused by pregnancy is low, since it takes some time for a fertilized egg to implant into the uterus and begin sending signals to your body that you're pregnant. Those signals are what give you typical pregnancy symptoms like dizziness, headaches and lower abdominal pain.

The two most likely culprits for your symptoms are either ovulation or that you're about to start your period. Since I don't know where you're at in your cycle it's hard for me to say.

Ovulation happens about two weeks from the time your last period began and two weeks from the time your next period is supposed to begin. It can cause all kinds of not-so-fun feelings, especially that lower abdominal pain that's focused on either the right or the left side. That pain is caused by the actual release of the egg during ovulation.

The chances you're pregnant are pretty good considering you've had a positive pregnancy test.

The first thing you should do, if you haven't already, is call your doctor or an OB to confirm pregnancy, especially since you seem unsure. That'll also give you a chance to talk to your doctor about what's ahead, along with birth control options that might be a better fit for you.

If you usually have an average 28-day cycle, and you still haven't gotten your period OR a positive pregnancy test, I'd call up your OB and let them know. Make sure they also have a history of your other pregnancies and ask if you can have a blood test and ultrasound done to confirm whether or not you're pregnant.

If you haven't taken a pregnancy test yet, now would be the time. If it comes back negative you should let your doctor know about your light periods because they can be a sign of a disorder that once treated, should get your periods back on track.

If the test comes back positive, then you'll want to call your doctor and get a blood test and ultrasound done to get an idea of how far along you are since it sounds like your symptoms (like the lighter than normal periods) could mean that your dates are a bit off.

The fastest way to find out you’re pregnant, from test to answer, is just with a home pregnancy test. While blood pregnancy tests can detect pregnancy earlier than a urine test, you still have to wait on the lab for the results whereas an at-home test only takes about 1-3 minutes for a result.

So, if you're already late for your period or close to it just do an at-home test.

Those can definitely be pregnancy symptoms, especially because if you had sex ten days ago, then this is around the time where you might start to feel those early symptoms.

If your period is due within the next few days and you still haven't started your cycle, it would be okay to take a test right now. If your symptoms are related to pregnancy then there should be enough hormone in your body at this point to get a positive result. If the test comes back negative then this sounds like particularly awful PMS.

You could definitely take a test today! If you had sex two weeks ago that would be around the time you would have ovulated. Keep in mind, we're all different and even from cycle to cycle we can experience little changes that speed up or delay ovulation. Unless you were tracking your ovulation, there's no guarantee that you were ovulating during that time, but it's still likely that you were.

If your test is negative don't get too worried about your symptoms--nausea, cramping, and breast tenderness are all completely normal before the start of your menstrual cycle.

These are all common pregnancy signs, especially if you're late for your period. Unfortunately, early pregnancy symptoms and premenstrual symptoms can be really similar and include the things you've mentioned.

One way that I could always tell the difference between my PMS symptoms and early pregnancy symptoms is that I'd be expecting my period but didn't have any of my typical symptoms like moodiness, food cravings, and fatigue. This was my clue to take a pregnancy test.

So, if your period is due in the next 3 or 4 days but you feel these symptoms are out of the norm for you, it wouldn't hurt to take a pregnancy test.

They can be, but considering the time of year, these could also be signs of seasonal allergies, unfortunately, especially the congestion and headache.

I would normally think these are all pretty indicative of your period being on the horizon, but the spotting makes me wonder if you were actually experiencing implantation bleeding. Some women have it, others don't.

If you haven't already started your period, you could go ahead and take a pregnancy test at this point since you're right around the time your cycle should be starting (or not starting, if you're pregnant).

All of those symptoms are certainly common in early pregnancy, but they're also common before the start of your period too.

The thing that makes me think you need to take a pregnancy test though, is the four days of spotting. If this was truly spotting, which would only be enough to need a pantyliner and not a tampon or pad, then it could be implantation bleeding.

Take a test and if it's negative wait a couple of more days and try again. If it's still negative, then it's possible you had a very light period which isn't necessarily a big deal. If your cycles continue to be light though you should let your doctor know because it can be a sign of a treatable disorder (like a thyroid disorder).

If the test comes back positive then, of course, you should still call your doctor.

If you still haven't had your period then I would definitely take a pregnancy test now!

If it's negative, or if you've started your period since you asked this question I would say you were most likely dealing with a virus or PMS symptoms. Some women will experience unpleasant symptoms from the start of their ovulation straight through until their period starts (which is two weeks as you describe).

If you continue to feel dizzy, let your doctor know. If you're not pregnant, it could mean you're dealing with slight anemia, true vertigo (which is not fun! I have episodes a few times a year thanks to wonky ears and it's just awful!) or another treatable condition.

First, if you're still bleeding, then I think you should hold off on taking a test. It's true, implantation bleeding and menstrual bleeding can sometimes be similar, mainly because they usually take place around the same time. A good way to tell the difference between implantation bleeding and menstrual bleeding is by the length of time you're bleeding for. If you experience bleeding and spotting for just a day or two instead of having an average period for 4 to 7 days, then there's a good chance that was implantation bleeding.

If you take a test during the bleeding, however, you may not get an accurate result. That's because it still takes a couple more days after implantation for your body to create the hormones that give you a positive result on a pregnancy test.

When the bleeding stops, go ahead and take a pregnancy test and if it's negative, wait two more days and take another test. If that one is still negative, then chances are you're not pregnant this month.

One more thing - it's quite reasonable to feel pregnant around ovulation. That's because many women (myself included) experience uncomfortable symptoms during ovulation like nausea, lower abdominal and pelvic pain and tiredness. This is just a normal reaction to the progesterone and estrogen (hormones) released during ovulation. Feeling symptoms that early in your cycle doesn't indicate pregnancy so much as ovulation.

For most women, ovulation happens on the 14th day of your cycle. That is, two weeks after your last period started and two weeks before your next period is due to start. Of course, every woman is different, and the only way to know for sure when you're ovulating is to do something called Charting and Temping. A good place to find information on how to properly chart and temp is on a website called fertilityfriend.com.

And yes, those can all be pregnancy symptoms, but if you're pretty close to starting your period, you could indeed just be experiencing premenstrual symptoms. I would take a pregnancy test the day of your expected period to get the most accurate result.

Yes, two weeks before your missed period is too early to take a test. That's because it's possible that you haven't ovulated yet and you must ovulate to conceive.

Ovulation usually happens around two weeks after your period has started at two weeks before your next period is due to start.

The ideal time to take a pregnancy test is the day your period is due, but if you use an early detection test, then you can take it a few days before and still get reasonably accurate results. Just make sure to read the instructions on the test's box first to make sure you're not taking it too early.

This is going to depend on the test you take. Generally, if you pick up an early detection pregnancy test (like a First Response Early Response), then you can take the test five days before the day your period is due to start.

Remember that the closer you get to the day your period is due, the more accurate your result will be (meaning that, if you take a test too early you may get a negative result when you're actually pregnant. I did that with my second daughter!)

A common cause of missed or irregular periods is, indeed, pregnancy. If you've taken a pregnancy test this month (since you missed your period in May) and it's negative then at least you can rule that out.

Next, you need to talk to your doctor and let them know about having only one period so far this year. There are many, many things that could be causing your irregular periods and nearly all of them are pretty innocent (but frustrating, because we kind of come to depend on that monthly period) so let's look at some of those possible causes:

- Peri-menopause or menopause: This is just when your body stops having regular menstrual cycles due to age. Peri-menopause comes first and can begin in your 30's or 40's.

- A thyroid condition: If your thyroid is a bit out-of-whack this can cause late or skipped periods. A simple blood test can help your doctor diagnose it and the treatment is also simple (medications, usually).

- Polycycstic Ovary Syndome (PCOS): This is a hormone imbalance that messes with ovulation and is treatable with your doctor's help.

In your case, it sounds like you're not pregnant, especially if the bleeding you're experiencing has gone on for more than two days and if it has a flow instead of just spotting.

The pains in your lower stomach and back and the excessive tiredness aren't uncommon signs of your period approaching.

If you continue to have heavy periods or lots of pain and exhaustion leading up to your period that you feel is not normal for you, talk to your doctor. It could be a sign of anemia which is pretty easy to treat (I take iron-rich vitamins every day to combat mine!)

If you're still unsure of whether or not you're pregnant, it doesn't hurt to take a pregnancy test. You should wait to take one though until the bleeding has stopped.

If you haven't begun having a flow yet, then I would take a pregnancy test in a few days. If you're experiencing a flow, then it's possible your period just came unexpectedly. If the test comes back negative and you continue to have back pain and spotting, you should call your doctor because it could be a sign of infection in which case you'll need to discuss an antibiotic with your doctor.

My first thought is that you just had a wonky period that was lighter than usual. But if this kind of thing isn't typical for you, I wonder if you could be pregnant, but you tested too early, or if you have your ovulation dates off.

If you've tested within the last day, hold off on testing again. If it's been a few days since you last took a test, take one now. If it's still negative, I would wait until your next period is due to see if it comes and if that one doesn't come, call up your doctor.

It's possible you're pregnant, but the test is, for some reason, not giving you an accurate result.

It's also possible that you're dealing with an undiagnosed infection or treatable condition that only an OB could properly diagnose.

Keep in mind that's it's not unusual for women to skip a period or experience delayed periods once in a while, but if the spotting happens again without a menstrual flow, you'll want to call your doctor.

Yes, you really can get pregnant after your period. Here's why -

If you have unprotected sex after your period, the sperm from that can live up to five whole days before completely dying off. If you ovulate a bit earlier in your cycle than expected, then it's quite possible for one of those late-in-the game sperm to find their way to the egg.

Here's a simple way to look at it:

The first day of your period is called Cycle Day 1 (or CD1).

Hypothetically, let's say your period lasts for five days and you have sex the next day. You had sex on Cycle Day 6. Then again on Cycle Day 7 and Cycle Day 8.

Now, let's say that you usually ovulate on Cycle Day 14 - two weeks after you started your last period but this month your ovulation came just two days early and you ovulated on Cycle Day 12 instead.

From Cycle Day 8 to Cycle Day 12 is four days. Four days that a few sperm from that last time you had sex could still be hanging out, waiting for their egg.

This is how, sometimes, you can get pregnant right after your period.

My advice is to wait to take a pregnancy test until you're four days away from starting your period. Begin testing that day (with an early result test) to confirm if your symptoms are pregnancy related or just pre-period stuff.

You are on top of your charting! Because of this, I'm going to assume you're probably trying to conceive (or possibly trying not to). If you had sex on or around your fertile days (so, CD10-CD15, give or take), then there's a good chance that your symptoms are indeed related to pregnancy. I wish I could say that cervical mucus is a reliable way to detect pregnancy but (and I'm not a doctor) I know that all of us women are different and we don't necessarily experience the same types of cervical mucus for each part of our cycle. So my best advice concerning that is just to take note of what is normal for YOU at this point in the cycle. If this CM is different than your normal CM at this time of the month, then that may be a pregnancy sign as well.

As I'm answering this, you should be around cycle day 25, and if you have a usual 28-day cycle, then it would be okay for you to start testing. With each negative test, you should wait two more days to test until you officially miss your period.

I would definitely grab a pregnancy test and take one. Usually, I would say you're most likely just sick but having a two day, light period isn't normal (unless that IS your normal, but it sounds like it's not).

When (if) you're pregnant, the extra blood flow can contribute to a stuffed up nose and any nasal dripping can of course cause you to cough and feel nauseous. At this point, you could take a test during any time of day and almost for sure get an accurate result.

If the test comes back negative, you might want to talk to your doctor about seasonal allergies. Personally, I'm having a tough time with them this season, and that could be one reason why the cold medicine isn't helping you.

As for the short, light period, I wouldn't stress about it if the test is negative. If you continue to have short, light periods, talk to your doctor and let them know. That can be a sign of a (treatable) thyroid condition.