8 Tips for Waking a Cranky Child in the Morning

Updated on February 21, 2018
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Weekday mornings can be the most tense time of the day: with preparing breakfast, packing lunches, getting ready for work, and trying to get everyone out of the house on time, the crack of dawn can be an all-out battle. Trying to get a cranky little person out of bed can take that stress over the edge of reason.

One thing that can make the mornings a lot less nerve-racking is having a household wake up on time, and without a fuss.

Some parents are fortunate enough to have perky morning children who wake up happy, smiling and full of energy, but for the rest of us, looking for ways to combat the morning wake-up blues, some suggestions are in order.

Below are eight things to know when trying to wake a not-so-pleasant child in the morning.

1. Make Sure Your Child is Getting Enough Sleep

Start by evaluating your child’s sleep schedule. Most kids don’t get enough sleep. According to the National Sleep Foundation, babies and toddlers typically need 12 hours of sleep during the night; preschoolers up to 13 hours; kids aged 5-12 should get 10 to 11 hours; and children aged 10-18 need to aim for 8.5 to 9.5 hours per night. If you need to change your routine to make sure your little one is getting proper shut-eye, then do it.

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2. Let Them Go to Bed Earlier

Try having them go to bed 30 minutes earlier than their normal bedtime. You might have to let them wind down sooner. Turn off the technology; no phones, computer, or TV. Let them get comfy in their PJ’s and have them read a book to relax. Instilling good habits now will pay major dividends for the rest of their life.

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3. Be Organized

Make sure you’re up at least an hour before the kids. If you work outside the home, be make-up and hair ready so you’re not struggling to get everyone together at the same time. Get the kid’s lunches prepared the night before and have their clothes laid out. So, when it’s time to wake up your sleeping angels you’ll have that extra time, when the unexpected expectedly occurs.

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4. Let Them Wake up Naturally

Ten minutes before you actually want your child out of the bed just casually turn the light on and leave the door open. Try letting them wake up naturally. It’s tempting to let kids sleep until the last possible minute, but if you let them wake up on their own you might get less of a fight. Open the blinds to allow the sunlight to sneak through the window. Let them hear the sound of the crickets; the birds chirping; the dogs barking, and the natural sounds of the morning getting itself ready for the day. The more organic your child’s transition from sleep time to morning time, the more likely you’ll have a happy child on your hands.


5. Don’t Worry; Be Happy

It’s a sappy cliché but be cheerful and lighthearted in the morning. If your child yells or even screams when it’s time for them to get out of the bed then don’t match their negative energy. If fact, do the opposite and shower them with physical affection and positive praise. Doing so will go a long way into turning any bad attitude they may be exhibiting into a calm, peaceful mood.

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6. Give Your Child Goals in the Morning

If your little one knows that they’ll earn more privileges if they get up at the designated hour, or get dressed on time, then they might be more inclined to wake up. Some of those privileges might be a bigger breakfast, or extra time on the computer, or the scenic drive in the car. You know your child so figure out what those privileges will look like, and help motivate a magical morning for everyone.

7. Have a Contest

This might work better for smaller kids, but if you get a little competition going in the morning you might get cheerful kids out of the bed, instead of cranky kids in the bed. Try saying something like, “Whoever wakes up first gets to listen to their favorite song in the car.” Or, if they’re an only child, you can challenge them with something like, “If you’re up before I count to ten, you can watch your favorite show before school.” Kids are competitive by nature, so use those instincts to help jump-start an amazing day.

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8. Leave the Nightlight On

I can attest that on the days I want my oldest to wake up a little earlier I turn the nightlight on in his room, after he’s gone to sleep, and suddenly he becomes an early riser. His natural body clock is more inclined to wake him when he gets a peek of the light. So, if you want your darlings up on time and in a naturally good mood, don’t be afraid to let a little artificial light shine throughout the night, every once in a while.

It’s stressful enough trying to juggle the countless morning tasks, we mom’s manage, while trying to get out of the house on time. If possible, not adding an irritable child as one of those pressures is ideal. Hopefully, by applying at least some of these tips you’ll eliminate the morning madness and soon be waking up to a happier, more peaceful household.

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        mamahall 

        3 years ago

        For my 4 yr old, most of the time jumping on her bed will wake her up in a good mood lol.. and when that doesn't work, she gets "coffee" just like mommy does (except hers is just milk with a splash of flavored creamer lol)

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        peachy 

        3 years ago from Home Sweet Home

        great ideas, i too open the door and let him hear the sound of TV, kitchen kettle noise to wake him up naturally

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        4 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi Maggie, thanks for reading. I'm glad I was able to be helpful!

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        Maggie.L 

        4 years ago from UK

        Great tips here. I have a very grumpy child on my hands in the morning so you've given me some ideas to think about. I especially like the idea of giving them goals.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        4 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi Shyron, yeah my oldest used to sleep in, but now he's reverted back to waking up early every…morning now. I'll have to do another article on how to get your little one to sleep in. LOL. Thanks for your comments.

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        Shyron E Shenko 

        4 years ago from Texas

        Thanks for the tips Careermommy, both my boys would wake up very early, so I had to train my ears to perkup at the slightest sound. My youngest could go to sleep anywhere any time, but he would wake up very early every morning.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        4 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi DDE, hey good for you! That must have made your mornings easier. Thank you for stopping by and commenting!

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        Devika Primić 

        4 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

        8 Tips for Waking a Cranky Child in the Morning I was lucky I did not have a problem with a cranky kid in the morning or during the day, and night thought very helpful tips mentioned here.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi thelyricwriter, thank you for the share, and your thoughtful and personal comments!

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        Richard Ricky Hale 

        5 years ago from West Virginia

        Voted up, useful, awesome, interesting, and shared on FB. Great tips and wise information. Oh boy, my 5 year old baby girl is a handful, she's the princess. My son was never any trouble at her age. I believe these are some very good tips and information:) I'll remember to keep them close for sure.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Justmesuzanne, I think I have to agree with you. I didn't like when my parents turned on the ceiling light either. It was more annoying than anything. I think letting the natural light shine through is much better, and bodes for a more natural wake up. Thanks for your thoughtful comments.

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        justmesuzanne 

        5 years ago from Texas

        Good information! I do take exception with the advice to turn the light on. My father used to do that to me, and I hated it. Turning a lamp on,maybe but not the ceiling light. Turning on a radio or TV in another room about half an hour or an hour before time to get up is helpful, too. Voted up and useful! :)

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Darrylmdavis, I think I will agree with you! Maybe waking cranky adults will be my next topic. (-;

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        Darrylmdavis 

        5 years ago from Brussels, Belgium

        A few of these would work on cranky adults, too lol! Well done :-)

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        rajan jolly, thank you for commenting. And, thank you for the vote up!

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        Rajan Singh Jolly 

        5 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

        Very interesting ways and am sure these work naturally. Voted up.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi moonlake, I'm sure that must have been nice for you and them. Thank you for your insight.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Bedbugabscond, it's so hard when you have to wake up a kid who just wants to sleep. My oldest used to be that way, not he's switched to waking up at 5:20 every morning. I try to take the "don't worry, be happy" approach but sometimes I'm so tired it's just too hard! Thank you for sharing perspective.

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        Melody Trent 

        5 years ago from United States

        I have a child who is a real grump in the morning. One day I had to take the don't worry be happy attitude about it. When school is out she can wake up naturally, and that will make a world of difference.

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        moonlake 

        5 years ago from America

        Great tips. We always had a bedtime for our kids. They never seem to have problems getting up in the morning. Summer I let them sleep as long as they wanted. Voted up.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Hi janetwrites, thank you for your kind words. I wish my oldest would sleep in a little longer, so I can get a little extra shut eye. Thanks for stopping by!

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        Janet Giessl 

        5 years ago from Georgia country

        Very useful tips. Both of my children are night persons and don't want to get up early. I should try out some of your tips to change this situation.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Thanks Sheri! When I first wrote this article I was having a hard time getting my oldest out of bed, but now, all of a sudden he turned into a morning person, so he's been wanting to get up at 5:30 every morning. Now, I don't know which is better. LOL!

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        Sheri Dusseault 

        5 years ago from Chemainus. BC, Canada

        Great hub! This should help out lots of moms. I was lucky that both my sons and I are morning people...but bedtime could be a challenge.

      • Careermommy profile imageAUTHOR

        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Babytech, thank you for reading. I was the opposite, a light sleeper and woke up at the drop of a hat. Hopefully these tips work for you when your baby gets older!

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        Babytech 

        5 years ago

        Ah! I liked it so much! And do you know why? Because I was the child who woke up hard. Your tips will definitely help me when my son will grow. Now he is only six months :) Great parenting hub!

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        agapsikap, thank you for your kind words. I'm glad you enjoyed it, and that these tips were useful!

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Karen, thank you for the vote up! Hey, and at least you've been there, done that so you have a lot to share and teach to many people. Thanks for reading.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        kidscrafts, I love the personal story you shared. If I were a kid I'd be laughing too. So, I see that've you've always had a creative streak in you. Thank you for your comments.

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        kidscrafts 

        5 years ago from Ottawa, Canada

        Great tips and suggestions, CareerMommy! I remember that I "almost" had to fight with one of my sons to dress him up in the morning! And because I really hate to fight, the only way I found that worked really well with him was to put each of my hands in his little socks and I was talking as if I had tow puppets....the two socks talking to each other. He was laughing so hard that after that I could dress him up!

        Because each kid is different, as parent, we have to find what works best to try to go over those cranky periods.... and one day one thing works and another day we have to find another solution!

        Have a great day!

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        Karen Hellier 

        5 years ago from Georgia

        These are all great tips. I wish I had been able to read something like this when my kids were school aged. Mornings were rough at my house because I had 2 kids who were night owls and then never wanted to get up in the a.m. Voted up and useful.

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        agapsikap 

        5 years ago from Philippines

        You really have great tips here, careermommy. I enjoy reading it. And ideas are really useful and awesome. Thanks for sharing.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Indian Chef, I agree. I know I don't get enough sleep and it affects me, so I can only imagine how lack of sleep can affect a child. Thanks for your comments.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        vandynegl, I'm so glad these tips were helpful. Please feel free to come back and comment if the changes make a difference. Thank you.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        peacepurple, I pray the extra sleep works for him. I think the right amount of sleep is key, and most kids don't get it. Thank you for the vote up!

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        VacationTrip, thank you for your kind words. I appreciate feedback.

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        Indian Chef 

        5 years ago from New Delhi India

        Very useful tips. Thanks for sharing them. I know a child or even an adult would be irritated if he or she do not get enough sleep. Voted up and useful.

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        vandynegl 

        5 years ago from Ohio Valley

        Good info!!! I have a cranky child that has difficulty going to bed earlier, but wakes up at the exact same time each day....so that could mean 11 hours of sleep or 9. Either way, it is not enough and he is prone to meltdowns! I like your tips! I plan to make some changes!

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        peachy 

        5 years ago from Home Sweet Home

        i don't think my kid has enough sleep. He is 6 years old , sleeps at 10pm and wakes up at 7am. 9 hours of sleep not enough for him. He could hardly wake up at all. I will try your tips. Hope to wake him up without much fuss. Voted up, useful.

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        Susan 

        5 years ago from India

        Awesome hub Careermommy. Great tips. Thank you for sharing. Voted up.

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        Toytasting, thank you for your kind words! I'm glad these tips were useful for you. You're very welcome!

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        Toy Tasting 

        5 years ago from Mumbai

        Careermommy, I always enjoy reading your hubs. They are so interesting and useful. Thank you for sharing such valuable information. Cheers!

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        Tirralan Watkins 

        5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

        RaksTheBlogger, thanks for being my first commenter! Please do share these tips with your mother. I hope they help in many ways!

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        Rakshith MG 

        5 years ago from Greetings From India!

        Really good tips!Have to show them to my mother because my baby sister just refuses to get up!The only problem with her is that she does not sleep early and ends waking really late in the day.Great hub!

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