Instilling Thankfulness in Children
Why Should I Give Thanks?
It’s that time of year again, when people begin thinking about everything they have to be thankful for. Although it’s nice to count your blessings on Thanksgiving and in the month of November, being thankful throughout the year can have tremendous benefits on your quality of life.
It seems to me that having gratitude may be one of the most overlooked tools that we all have access to every day. Cultivating a sense of thankfulness doesn’t cost any money, and it certainly doesn’t take much time, but the benefits are enormous. Especially when we pass along the sense of gratitude to our children. One way we have done this in our house is by saying what we are thankful for before dinner. My husband or I write down what everyone says in a notebook specifically created for this task and then we eat dinner together. It's almost in place of saying grace at dinner, and in a way, shares the same function as if we were saying grace.
In the pictures below, you'll each person's initials and what they're thankful for that particular day!
Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.— Oprah Winfrey
Kids Can Write What They're Thankful For Too!
There's Always Something To Be Thankful For
Being thankful is always a good idea, whether you're an adult or not. It helps give us an appreciation for the things we have and keeping that positive mindset will lead to a happier life.
One way that my family has decided to be thankful is by having what we call a Thankful book. It's a dated notebook that sits on our kitchen table and right before we have dinner, we go around the table and say what we're thankful for. It can be about anything from that particular day and as specific or general as you'd like. Often I'm thankful for our good weather, good health or successes of the kids, but it's been fun to hear our kids responses. Some days the kids are hangry and don't want to be thankful for anything, but we remind them that they can say anything from their day. Sometimes that means they'll say they're thankful for dinner, just to get to eat, but other times their responses have been surprising and unexpected.
Do You Talk With Your Kids About What They Can Be Thankful For?
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