I’m not sure if my relationship with my dad can actually get better. He never spends time with us, but I hate him so much that I don’t even want anything to do with him. He vapes in the house and lies about it, even though I’ve tried everything to get him to stop, and I’m glad when he’s not home cause I don’t even want to see him. I have to force myself to answer when he does talk to me. How can things get better if he refuses to change, and refuses to admit his faults?
Okay, now I don’t know the full story but if your dad ‘vaping’ is the worst thing he does, I think you need to reassess the concept of ‘hate’. Read some of the stories in the comments section below and see if you really believe your dad deserves to be hated. I’m thinking you should try and see some of his good qualities, and be prepared to accept some of his faults. Nobody is perfect and there’s a possibility you might be expecting a bit too much of your dad.
Updated on March 8, 2018