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13 Ways to Prepare for Your Daughter's First Beauty Pageant

Holle is a retired English teacher. She is a freelance writer and mother and enjoys writing helpful pieces on motherhood topics.

Read on for 13 tips to help you start your daughter in pageants.

Read on for 13 tips to help you start your daughter in pageants.

How to Get Started in Toddler Beauty Pageants

If your little diva is itching to be in toddler beauty pageants, you need to consider many factors before filling out that entry form and sending in the fee. Glitz pageants, even small local ones, are often highly competitive. National winners sometimes use local pageants as practice sessions. Also, toddler beauty pageants (or any other type of pageant) are not cheap when you include everything you need to be competitive.


Beginner Tips for Beauty Pageants

Here are a few things you should think about:

  1. Start your child in pageants before they become a toddler. Baby beauty pageants are popular, and entering a baby is a lot less stressful for the parents in both time and money. You won't have to go through the labor and expense of tasks like tanning, makeup sessions, modeling, flippers, or intricate hair-dos.
  2. Think of your first pageant as a trial run. You'll get an idea of whether or not your daughter still wants to do beauty pageants after she's experienced one. You could luck up and win your first pageant, but the odds are not on your side, especially if you're competing against seasoned girls.
  3. Build up the excitement! Play up the fun! She doesn't even need to understand that she's competing against others. You don't want to put any pressure on her. The main thing you want her to do is have a good time.
  4. For small children in toddler beauty pageants, stage personality is very important. If the judges see she's having fun, she'll get a higher score. Let her be a little silly on stage if she wants. Some natural silliness is better than a stiff, robotic performance. I've seen personality beat natural beauty and gorgeous dresses!
  5. There's usually a lot of wait time backstage, so be sure to take things to entertain your little girl. Storybooks, hand-held video games, and coloring books with crayons are all good ideas. Do not take markers—she'll end up with marks on her hands and arms.
  6. Rent or borrow a dress for your first pageant. There's no need to plop down $1,000 for a drop-dead dress until you know you both want to continue doing beauty pageants. If you don't want to rent a dress, purchase a non-glitzy dress on eBay and stone it yourself. We did this for our first pageant, and we not only won the prettiest dress, but we also won the pageant—over numerous seasoned girls!
  7. For shoes, you'll need plain white Mary Janes with a matte finish—not shiny patent leather. You also have to pick up white socks with a couple of layers of lace but don't get the ones with numerous lacy layers. You don't want your DD (darling daughter) to end up looking like a poodle. You might want to add just a few small Swarovski stones to the socks.
  8. You can style her hair in an updo or have her wear it long. Most of all, her hair must look neat. The can of hairspray is your friend! If you decide on an updo, tease the top a little and have a strand of hair framing her face. If her hair is fairly short, pull it up to her crown and secure it with a rubber band. Around the ponytail, place one of those scrunchies with curls. These are available at wig supply stores for just a few bucks—a lot cheaper than an actual wiglet, and they'll be fine for a first pageant. If your DD wears her hair down, pull it back from her face. You can curl it into ringlets or simply turn the ends under. You'll need to add a hairbow that matches the dress no matter which style you use. Don't go overboard with the bow. You don't want it to distract the judges from looking at your DD's face, but you do want to add a few Swarovski stones to the bow for sparkle.
  9. Do not put her dress on her until almost the last minute. There are just too many things that can happen. She'll need a button-down shirt to wear backstage, so it won't have to go over her head and mess up her hair. Just before she walks out on stage, "fluff up" the skirt portion of her dress and look for any dangling strings.
  10. If you're in a lineup for the prettiest smile, there's a trick I used that very often worked. Kneel directly behind your daughter and whisper something funny to her. Lightly tickle the back of her neck, too. She'll likely respond with a full natural smile that the judges will love.
  11. Having a partner in the audience is a good strategy. Have them sit directly behind the judges, several rows back, holding up a hand puppet. This will get your DD to look in the direction of the judges and will help elicit a natural smile.
  12. For a first pageant, walk out on stage with your little girl. You'll probably lose points if she's over four or five, but that doesn't matter. Remember, you're not trying to win this one. You're just testing the waters.
  13. Most beauty pageants give a small trophy or some other token for participation. If your DD doesn't win one of the big trophies or crowns, make a fuss over her participation award. Display it proudly in her room. This will give her a feeling of accomplishment and a confidence boost.

Questions & Answers

Question: What is a common question that beauty pageant contestants can encounter?

Answer: We never did pageants with interviews. Older girls are often asked about their career choices and education.

Question: How do I enter my 9-year-old in a beauty pageant?

Answer: Search the internet and newspapers for pageants in your area. Sometimes festivals host pageants.

Question: How can one get in preteen pageants?

Answer: Search online for them.

Question: What items do you need to prepare your daughter for a beauty pageant?

Answer: That totally depends on the type of pageant: glitz, semi-glitz, natural, etc.

Question: In a children's glitz pageant, what is the most important thing to remember or do?

Answer: Other than appearance? Smile. Make eye contact with each judge and with the audience.

Question: By what age are swimsuits worn in beauty pageants?

Answer: That depends on the individual pageant. I've seen babies in swimsuit optionals.


Jenna on May 17, 2020:

Hey! An extra tip you forgot to mention is that you’re all creeps! Thanks!

Sunshine on April 03, 2020:

My daughter is 7 and has been asking to be in a pageant. I never hear of any locally. Just want to know how to get her started.

Jemimah on July 14, 2019:

Thank u for the tips please can you suggest some activities or project 10 years old can do for their school when they win the Schools pageant

Nannatte on April 30, 2019:

this will help my five year old daughter

Tammy Lucas on April 08, 2019:

I want to start my 4 year old daughter please give me some tips

Tiffany brown on February 03, 2018:

My daughter is 2 and we live in nc. Shes so full of personality I think she would enjoy being in a pageant and i would like some advice on which one would be a good "test the waters" pageant for her to register for

LadyKat on March 10, 2016:

So I am not sure if you are still responding to new post but what are some things to look for to find more natural pageants. I have 3 girls 12, 9, and 2 1/2. My 9 yr old started asking about entering pageants and I have been extremely hesitant because although I believe she is absolutely adorable she has alopecia and deals daily at school with one kid or another commenting on her bald spots or lack of hair. How harshly do judges look at the hair styles. She has worn wigs before but doesn't really like them and wants to show how proud and girly she is even with just part of her hair. I as a protective mom don't want her to be hurt for trying something new.

Amelia Kellam on January 06, 2015:

So glad I read this. I know nothing about this kind of thing but my 4 yr. Old is a natural. She loves being prissy playibg dress up and being the center of attention. I am more about her having fun than winning anything. I also am more fpr natural no makeup or any of that.

KimberlyS on December 28, 2014:

I also have a daughter (6 years old now) who has participated in multiple beauty pageants since she was 4. Her very first she won Queen over all, which is very rare. She has won scholarships and has learned new talents. She has grown self confidence and doesn't shy away from everyone anymore. Her father and I entered get into her first pageant because she wanted to try it out. Well I can say it had been so positive. I have not seen any pageants that were 'bad'. For that we are very fortunate. The girls that participate in the pageants with my daughter have so much natural talent that I have totally changed my way of thinking when it comes to pageants. The girls raise money for charities, volunteer their time and meet new people that become their friends. My daughter has had many positive gains from being a participant. I am so glad we allowed her to start. At the age of 5 she won her first scholarship and her talent was as simple as poetry recital from memory. She loves to read and incorporated that into her talent. I can agree with Habee, if you find the pageants that truly care about how to help a child grow into themselves, they are worth it! I hope this helps.

Gehad on August 02, 2013:

Hi Shelly,My daughter has done servael pageants (and is still doing them) we love them!!!! I wanted to start my own pageant but had a few questions. How do you decide the pricing? if i wanted to do servael pageants a year (different themed) do i need to register each one with my state? How much money do i need to start a pageant local optionals supreme title maybe 20 contestants? Can they make checks payable to me or do i open an account just for the pageants? What is the best way to advertise the pageant? What is the best way to know how many contestants will be there (so each one gets a small crown) where do iget crowns from, where do i get judges from, where do i get a stage setup from. Please help!!!! thanks Amber

Catera212 on January 27, 2013:

I am 10 years old and I am African American!My friend Reagan and I are doing out first beauty pageant which will be glitz.We are buying glitz dresses from which are about 95 dollars each.Regan and I have different kind of hair because she is Caucasian and I am African-American!Should I wear a hair piece?Like a curly bun.Also,My dress will be yellow to compliment my skin color

taleaha on July 20, 2012:

i think pageants are for beautiful girls but all this fake stuff i just dont like it that much

Christy on March 13, 2012:

ok i need help.. i am thinking of putting my 4 yr old in her first pageant, its just a local fair pageant but i have questions about the dress. we found a real pretty turquise ankle length dress but i hear alot of talk that a 4yr old should be wearing short dresses? she is kind of on the short side and i am not sure how that would look, but i dont know if that is still the " rule of thumb" of if that was mainly done years ago, they look kind of old fashioned to me.. plus i am thinking of keeping her hair down and i am not planning on doing lots of makeup.. possibly some light eye shadow and lip gloss... this is my first pageant so i could use all the help i can get/..

Kate on February 16, 2012:

Fatima, you know even if you can't do the cutsy moves in the beauty part of the compitition you can still have fun modeling routines in other catagorys.

Kick boxer on February 06, 2012:

Hi there, My daughters just participated in their first pageant. THEY LOVED IT!!!! They both won Princess awards, tiaras, and trophies!!!! I enjoyed it as well. We only do natural pageants. They are the only ones I approve of because I do not want my 5 year old looking like she is 15 lol. I do think the Glitz pageants are pretty but just not for me. I love your articles, they have helped me now that my girls have decided to do another. Thank you!

james adam on January 20, 2012:

Extremely suitable fashions which shows the innocence and cuteness of children if they wear them.


Fatima on January 10, 2012:

Habbeeee pleeeez help !!!!!!

Tony on January 06, 2012:

Moron moms

Kiyah on January 04, 2012:

I am very good in beauti pagents this is the day I wanting for eight years.There is a lot of things that it is inportant to me.


8years old

8 years

Evette on December 30, 2011:

Soooooooo how do i start

Brittany on December 30, 2011:

I want to enter my wonderful, most beautiful, very out going w/ awesome personality 18 month old daughter in baby pageant to put a push towards her future. But as I scrolled down I seen a toddler w/ make up on, is it a must that they put make up on? Thanks dearly Mother

frane on December 28, 2011:

hey Habee,my ten year old daughter wants to start pagents,with NO MAKEUP!Should I let her go on wihhout makeup?

Fatima on December 28, 2011:

I really want to be in a pageant, here in dubai we dont have any ! Im 13 and i got crushed when i read that 13 and older have to wear gowns or mermaid style dresses ;') i reaally want to wear a cupcake dress with all the cutessi stuff !! I know everything and all the moves for kids pageants.. What a waste of time !! I practiced the kids one ! I searched online for teen pageants but i never found vids for 13 year olds ! Any suggestions?

shianna on December 27, 2011:

good to know this stuff

Kelly p on December 05, 2011:

Thank you for your tips on pageants. My 2 yr old daughter & I are new to pageants. She has done 4 local pageants & one festival pageant which was her 1st on & he placed 4th out of 11 girls!! I was so proud! The problem I have is at two years old she actually loves to do pageants!! She loves to practice, cries to wear her glitz dress ALL the time & asks to do pageants all the time! I have never seen anything like it before! The local pageants she has been in have been mothers choice of outfit, so I put her in her glitz dress. It is hard to keep her off of the stage & she tries her hardest to get back on after her turn!! I hope this will change when she is a little older, because I can never watch the whole pageant due to chasing after her & keep her from crying because she wants to be onstage! She is ALL business when she does get on stage! She just turned two & I really don't even have to tell her what to do or hold her hand, she can now do go to the x's on her own. We just did a pageant & she got princess. I had several strangers say they could not believe she did not get queen! I will not say bad things about the little girls appearance, only that it seemed they mite have felt sorry for her?? I had several moms tell me that she should not be doing

local pageants that I should put her in national ones. Every pageant she has done she has been "pageant" from head to toe and the winners will have on an off the rack dress & hair fixed like I fix my dd fir church. These pageants have not been "natural". I can honestly be objective, if my dd doesn't win I can accept that, but it just stinks when another cuter child doesn't win either. I really don't know

how to get her into the national pageants, do you have any

Suggestions? I am writing this on my phone & am not able to go back & see what I have already written, sorry if I have repeated anything or something may not make much sense!

go about doing that, do you

have any suggestions for us?

selena on November 23, 2011:

hi i am a qeen of qeens you must no me i ame justins girl i love him to bits but we ot back to giller i love him

lizzie on November 10, 2011:

Hey im 14 and i have never been to a pegeant can i still get into one ?

Makenzie on October 26, 2011:

I put my daughtor in pagents and she loves it but when she looses it she starts crying i just dont know what to do i try to say winning is not everything and she is not listaning to me

Destiny on October 21, 2011:

I think pageants are good as long as the child wants to do them. I do not agree with all the make up and hair pieces, spray on tans, fake eyelashes, etc, however, to each her on. I plan to put my daughters in pageants, but I want to limit them to the natural pageants and want them to know winning is not everything, it is just fun. :) As long as they enjoy it, we will continue. If they do not, then we will stop. :) that is the plan anyway. LOL

buttercup on October 15, 2011:

great! didn't know that

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Caitie, every beauty pageant has its own scoring system. Usually, you can find out how beauty pageants will be scored before entering. Good luck!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Maggiesmom, I think black is risky. A few judges might like it, but most had rather see white or a color on younger girls.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Bianca, did you get the email I sent you?

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Sadie, I am so sorry, but I'm not familiar with beauty pageants in the UK.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Anna, I totally agree with your comparison of beauty pageants and sports!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Saif, thank you very much!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Kathy, sorry, but I don't know anything about beauty pageants in Cali.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Valeria, that gives you lots of time to practice!!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Mellisa, to be competitive in most glitz pageants, you'll need to tan.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Monica, judges at beauty pageants basically want to see a happy child on stage!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Dreaming, don't give up on beauty pageants. Follow your dreams!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Jacie, thanks for reading about beauty pageants!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 14, 2011:

Thanks, lace wig!

caitie on October 11, 2011:

To Maggiesmom: personally I've never seen black in a pageant, but that doesn't mean your dd can't win. I'm guessing it's a natural pageant so they probably ask the kids to wear Sunday best. My dd has always worn pink or white and usually wins or is first runner up. My dd did her first pageant as a baby and won it. Then we continued to do a few here and there, all local prelims. She LOVES it now, maybe too much, we just bought a semi glitz dress that I am going to add stones to. But this year she has done two pageants, and this other girl keeps placing ahead of her. My dd doesn't care, she just likes pageants anyway but I care! lol I want to know why this other girl keeps placing ahead of my dd. what do the judges really look for, sometimes I think in the prelims they want everyone to win an optional so they get their entry fee paid to state. It doesn't seem fair. Any suggestions? Do you know how the pageants are scored? I always enter her in all the optionals.

Maggiesmom on September 28, 2011:

Quick 5 year old will be in her first pageant this's a local state fair pageant...we bought a dress that is black..with grey and white polka has black sequins along the chest and straps..matching it with a silver hand band that has a big flower on it..her shoes are silver ballet this too much black for a pageant? Do more people where color? and does the rule for white shoes go for the "sundays best" pageants?? ANY HELP FROM ANYONE WOULD BE AWESOME! thanks!

BiancaMatthews1 from England on September 28, 2011:

Hello, I recently emailed you asking you a few questions about your personal opinion about documentaries as child pageants cover a lot of documentary stories nowadays. But just to remind you, my name is Bianca, I am currently studying Media as one of my subjects at Farnborough Sixth Form college in the UK. As one of my projects, I am doing a mini documentary on the views of people on child pageants and for my research I came across your article about whether children pageants are good or bad and a few others which interested me such as this one also. My questions are...

Do you think that documentaries are biased? Do you think that documentaries deliberately make the characters stereotypical?

Your experience and views on this subject matter would be so valuable and would love to hear back from you, with best wishes, Bianca Matthews

Sadie on September 25, 2011:

Hi Habee my little girl is 7 and i really would like her to start do beauty pageant but i don't know were to start i live in the UK please help

Many Thanks Sadie x

Anna on September 16, 2011:

I find it hypocritical that women protest when a girl competes in a beauty pageant but have no issue with boyscompeting in something like football. Only the athletic boys can excel in sports. What about the poor boys who are fat or slow? Doesn't encouraging a boy to go out for sports teach him that his value is in how fast he can run rather than how smart he is?

Everybody has their gifts. There is nothing wrong with the pretty girls having their pageants.

saif113sb on September 09, 2011:

Very very nice and great information. Thanks

Kathy on September 03, 2011:

Does anyone know of or can recommend a pageant for my 10 year old daughter to try for her first time? We are in southern california. Thanks

Kathy on September 03, 2011:

Does anyone know of or can recommend a pageant for my 10 year old daughter to try for her first time? We are in southern california. Thanks

Valeria on September 02, 2011:

Okay i am 14, i live in a small town in arizona, and my mom will be in the chamber of commerce pretty soon and she found out that there is a pagaent for miss maricopa! only problem is i have to be atleast 17!:( i have never done pagaents, ever and i want to get some practice before miss Mariciopa what do i do!?!

Mellisa on September 01, 2011:

I am not so sure about spray tanning my daughter she is 7. And has pale skin

Monica on August 28, 2011:

What kind of personality does a beauty pageant have? help

dreamingofpageants on August 28, 2011:

Hi I work really hard on my teeth. I am 12 an I personal think I do need a flipper. But that's just my opinon.

Plus I. Wanna do pageants SOOOO bad that every time I think about them I go am lock myself in the bathroom and practice my walk. If I tell anyone else I'm afriad they will tell me its stuiped. And say I don't have the skills for a glitz pageant

jacie on August 12, 2011:

these are great tips these will be very useful with everything. and i cant wait to get started!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on July 07, 2011:

Gosh, sr, I really don't what to advise. My youngest granddaughter is fair, and Barbie pinkk works well on her.

Soffiesmum, I don't know much about Cali pageants. A lot of girls in the South are wearing swimsuits now for outfit of choice. That would be in keeping with the theme, too.

soffiesmum on July 02, 2011:

I am entering my 8 month old daughter in her first pageant which is also a theme pageant "Hot August Nights" in Reno NV it is advertised as a natural and Glitz pageant put on by Charmed Pageants out of california any suggestions for us it really would help as I am comepletely clueless she is doing beauty theme wear and outfit of choice

sr on April 17, 2011:

Hi. I am looking for some advice for granddaughter who is 16 months old. She is a beautiful little girl but she is very fair, both skin and hair. My daughter has put her in several pageants but she really fades out up on stage. Being in a natural pageant is obviously tough on a fair child and getting makeup on her for a glitz pageant is worse. Any suggestions at this point? I am about to recommend to my daughter she postpone pageants for a few years for her features to darken. Thanks!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on April 12, 2011:

Denise, go to my pageant blog for lots of tips! It's highlighted in one of the comments above.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on April 12, 2011:

Thanks for visiting, Michael!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on April 12, 2011:

Hi, asma!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on April 12, 2011:

PG, thanks for reading!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on April 12, 2011:

Kare, we tried the hotfix stones several years ago but weren't happy with them. I've heard they're better now.

Denise on April 09, 2011:

Thank you for the very useful information. My daughter, now 3 1/2, has "Played dress up" in 2 county pageants. She has not placed, but has found more confidence. There is another pageant in less than a month. We have a dress and all our supplies needed. My question: What should we practice or work on for this pageant. It is still local and is not advertised as glitz or natural. It's to raise money for Relay for Life. Any advice would be wonderful.

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lace wig on March 21, 2011:

Thanks,Informative.It will good for me.

asma on March 20, 2011:

be a natural girl

pageantgirly on March 16, 2011:

i compete in natural pageants in vancouver.i am 12 years old. i've only done one and i got 2nd runner up. im competing in another in April.i think pageants are great confidence boosters. i was really nervous my first time but when i got on stage i had a great time. so if you are thinking of entering your little girl i agree.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on March 15, 2011:

Hi, Kare. I've never tried the Hotfix stones because a pageant pal had bad results with them. Maybe they're better made now, so perhaps we should give them another try!

Kare on March 14, 2011:

I read your stoning a dress portion, do you not recommend the hotfix swarovski stones, that is what I have always used for my 3 year olds gymnastics leotards (shes been in gymnastics since 4 months old) and they seem to stay very very well even with all the running jumping tumbling and everything else she manages to do....... but is there a reason you do not recommend them in your article........

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on March 06, 2011:

Melissa and Karmen, first of all, thanks for reading! To rent a pageant dress in your area, contact a nearby pageant director. She'll probably be able to steer you to someone who rents pageant dresses.

Another idea is to buy an unstoned dress and stone it yourself. We've done this a couple of times and have had great success with it. I have anarticle here on HP about how to stone pageant dresses.

I just started a new pageant guide you might be interested in. I'll be adding lots of info and pics!

Karmen on March 06, 2011:

hi im 12 and i always watch todleers and tiaras ive decided to look for dresses but my mom thinls that they are way to expensive weve looked on ebay but theres none in the size of you no anywere i could get a glitz pageant dress for a size 10-12. were competing in the southern celeberty pageant.

melissa on March 04, 2011:

does anyone know where to rent a glitz pageant dress for a 4/5 yr old? i think buying a 1200 dress outright is ridiculous! i have my daughter in natural pageants, and the last thing i wanna teach her from these pageants is that she "has" to have the most expensive things in life. thats not always true, and thats why we are looking to rent a dress. thanks for any help!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on March 02, 2011:

Anonymous, you need to be honest with your mom about it being a glitz pageant. Tell her you'll pay for everything with your birthday cash, and convince her that you have the right attitude! Good luck!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on March 02, 2011:

You're welcome, Sean. Thanks for reading!

anonymous on February 26, 2011:

hi habee, i am 13 and did one natural pageant. i didn't win but i got congeniality and model:-) i asked my mom if i could do another and she said yes, so we entered. it is in a few months but my mom thinks it is natural; but it is glitz. i will pay for everything since i got allot of money for my birthday. i dont want to tell her because she said she isn't a real fan of pageants. what do i do?

Sean Bryant on February 21, 2011:

awesome stuff you have here. thanks for the idea

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on January 14, 2011:

Amy, ask every business in town! All they can do is say no.

Amy on January 12, 2011:

Thanks :) I'm having a hard time finding sponsors. I'm not a regular at any stores. What do you think I should do? I thought about maybe real estate agents??

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on January 11, 2011:

Amy, we did Sunburst several years ago. As for dress color, if your DD has dark hair and a tan, white is hard to beat. Lexi won a lot in turquoise, too. Hair - headband with bow is about your only choice.

Amy on January 08, 2011:

I had asked you a question a couple of days ago. I was wondering did it go through? sometimes my phone doesn't work properly

AmyO. on January 05, 2011:

Hi. Your article is helpful :) I have a 15 month old girl. I want to enter her in a natural pageant called Sunburst. Are you familiar with it? Any thoughts? Also I was wondering, is there a certain color that judges go for? Het dress is white. But I would love a turquoise one. And what do you suggest for really short hair. She's only 15 months so there's not much to work with and she likes to pull hats off. Sometimes bows. The alligator clip kind is the ones I have.

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on January 03, 2011:

Shorty, I don't know anything about pageants in Canada. Try looking online for a natural pageant!

Thatshortgirl on December 26, 2010:

Alright, thanks. I haven't gotten to talk to my parents about it yet, but I did decide I would want to do a natural beauty pageant because that would be alot cheaper. And I decided I would want to start looking for one in May, after I go on my school trip to Quebec. I still can't find a small pageant in my area yet though

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on December 23, 2010:

Sorry, Shorty, I don't know anything about pageants in Canada. With your talent, I bet you'd do well in a pageant that had a talent category! Maybe if you earned the entry fee yourself, your parents would allow you to try a pageant. Good luck!

Thatshortgirl on December 21, 2010:

I'm 13 and I really want to get into pagents. I am a preformer, I sing and I have preformed in plays. But my parents don't really like the idea of pagents, they think they are a waste of time and a huge waste of money. I already know that I would need to get a job to help with money How can I convince them to let me enter one? Also, I can't seem to find any small pageants in my area to enter. I live in Red Deer Alberta Canada, and incase you don't know, that isn't in a state

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on November 11, 2010:

Moons and Writer, I really appreciate your readership!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on November 11, 2010:

Cassie, try to get local businesses to sponsor you. They can use it as a tax deduction for advertising. Good Luck!

writer83 from Cyber Space on November 11, 2010:

Habee, i think this is good tip coming from you. I believe joining a pageant can help anyone to increase self confidence and be a team player. :)

moons on November 09, 2010:

cute! If you really want it. Go for it! :)

cassie on November 02, 2010:

I've only done two pageants and i've done really well,and I want to do another one, but my Daddy has cancer and we don't have enough money to do another one yet. How can we get more money?

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 22, 2010:

Hope, I totally agree!

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on October 22, 2010:

Krista, you need to convince your mon that you have the right attitude for pageants. Good luck!

Hope on October 18, 2010:

Thank you for the tips. To me this is no different than boys in sports. Some take to the extreme.

Krista on October 09, 2010:

Habe, I'm thirteen and would like to join a pageant, how do I make that wish happen??

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on September 24, 2010:

Brogan, I would suggest practicing a lot in front of friends and family members! Good luck!

brogan on September 14, 2010:

i would like to join a pagent what could i do to build my confidents up?

Holle Abee (author) from Georgia on July 25, 2010:

Watch some pageant footage on youtube! Best of luck!

1sttimer on July 22, 2010:

Thank you Habee for all the information. My 10year old daughter wants to be in a pageant and I have gone online and found a smi-glitz/natural pageant in my area where everyone walks away with a crown. The problem I am facing is I have no idea how she is suposse to walk or how her hair should be done, ect. Can you point me in the direction of any website that may be able to offer some tips on how to walk?